[clay19500]

It starts with an overall body assesment, if the assesment is favorable, a desire to ‘acquire’ them and engage in sex begins to form. I don’t visualize sex at that moment, there is just this energy that stirs, it’s a sort of stalking,predatory feeling. This is accompanied by a self-conscousness about the obvious looking and desiring. If I find them terribly sexy, thoughts might come up later that involve visualizing sex. If I get to know her a little bit, her personailty may dampen or enhance the desire. Before I get to know her as a real person and not just some desirable object, everything is at a more or less primitive level. If we become friends,however, those feelings of desiring her on an objectified level begin to feel awkward and wrong. But eventually, the liking of the person and the appreciation of her figure may mix into an even richer concoction of desire. Question for you, when men look at you for a prolonged period does it feel like a sort of small violation? Where do you draw the line between an appreciative glance and an ‘ogling’?

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Name : clay19500, Gender : M, Age : 37, City : denton, State : TX, Country : United States, 

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