[Vincent B.]

I can tell you why I seek an interracial relationship (to all the black females who are reaching for their verbal rapiers to skewer me, I’d remind you that the following is my own opinion and can change at any time): From my own experience, I have come to believe that I am not the ideal mate for black women. My features are not that of Denzel Washington, Babyface, et al. As a college student, I barely have enough to stay in my studio apartment, much less buy an expensive car (I cannot drive, so that’s a non-issue in any case), jewelry or the latest trends in clothing. The standards set in the media, which many black females seem to eat up instantly, are too high for me to touch. Character doesn’t seem to register (even though I am far from a saint, I admit).

What I am ultimately trying to say is that nice guys appear to finish last when it comes to hooking up with a black female. They appear to want either a roughneck gangster, an R&B uberlover or the next NBA or NFL superstar. All I ask in a lady is acceptance of who I am and who I can become. Unfortunately, in my opinion, BET and many urban radio stations have poisoned the minds of African-American women by presenting so much eye candy that they dismiss a regular, plain-looking college student who seeks a regular career.

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Name : Vincent B., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 26, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, 

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