[Syd]

Sadly enough, I’m only 21 and have known three women close to me who are/were in abusive relationships. In all cases, the father figure was either non-existent, sexually explicit or a misogynist. Sometimes that kind of father teaches a girl what not to tolerate in a man, but more often than not, she’ll go out with men who are like her father. In one case, my friend married too young and to a mentally/emotionally abusive, racist man. Toward the end he began getting physically abusive, and she left him. Her father was verbally abusive to her; I know because he did it in front of her friends. He also cheated on his wife and treats her like a second-class citizen.

The other two situations aren’t much better, and they follow the same pattern. In turn, the daughters went out with terrible men, unworthy of anything but a cell space in jail. This isn’t the only cause for women going out with abusive men, but I find the pattern pretty scary.

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Name : Syd, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : Asian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Austin, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : College student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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