[RobinW]

Pay attention to your emotions and the reactions of your body. Are you equally attracted to men? Or are you attracted more to men? Or not at all to men? Human sexuality is a continuum, like a rheostat, not a simple off/on switch. I consider myself a lesbian, because I am primarily attracted to women. I’ve really only been attracted to one man in my life. (And I married him, because it was unthinkable that I might be anything but straight, in spite of all the evidence. We are still together, by the way. My lesbian life-partner lives with us, and the three of us are very happy, thank you.) I was in my forties before I was able to admit, even to myself, that women cause physical and emotional responses in me that men simply do not. So give yourself all the time you need. It is not necessary to label yourself. If you want to identify with a group, that’s one thing. But when that time comes, it will be something that you want to do.

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Name : RobinW, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 46, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, 

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