[Ray N. Grant]

I generally use my hand and a bar of soap. I wet the area, spreading the cheeks, then rub the bar of soap there, then work the lather thoroughly in the nook, above and below the nook, the cheeks themselves, and then work a soapy finger into the anal opening itself, at least a couple of inches inside to clean out 'residue'. It's critical to keep that area clean: 1. So you don't get the itchies and have to be scratchin' and digging back there. 2. If you have anyone performing oral sex on you, nothing's worse that having someone spread his/her legs and get ready to go down and then suddenly catching a whiff of a dirty butt! So keeping you butt clean makes for better oral sex. 3. If you have anybody rim you then it's MANDATORY!!(unless the person is into dirtiness...)

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[Ray N. Grant]

You ask if being attracted to 13 and 14 yo girls because of their small breasts make you a pedophile. The question you need to ask yourself is do you ever find girls/women your age or older attractive IF they have small breasts as well? If the answer is yes, then I probably wouldn't worry so much about it. As you get older, you'll find girls/women older than 13 and 14 more attractive as well. If the answer is no, that you seem to ONLY find girls at age 13 and 14 attractive, then I might be concerned. I would make an effort then to talk to someone at a youth counselling center (preferably that is NOT religious based! Especially not Catholic or Fundamentalist!)

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[Ray N. Grant]

I'm not offended at all. The Spanish speaking community is the fastest growing demographic group in the United States to date. The reality is that this group will become the numeric majority in this country within the next decade if immigration continues as it does. Many who come here are here because of lack of liveable job opportunities back in their home countries. Most of them know that to really make it here in the US, they will have to become fluent in English. But in the meantime, businesses know that to reach these populations for the market share they need to provide services in Spanish as well as English. And as much as folks say that they wouldn't go to live in Europe and not learn the language there, the reality is that there are a lot of Americans (and Brits and Aussies) who go there frequently to live/visit/whatever and do NOT know the language, and services are provided in English at most establishments. Most restaurants in the major European cities have menus in English, have waitstaff that speak at least rudimentary English, hotels have their websites in English as well as their local language PLUS a 3rd or 4th language. They do this not because they love Americans so much (especially with the current administration!) but because they know who their clientelle are. A significant percentage of their clientelle are Americans and Brits who speak English. And a large number of travellers from other countries who speak English as a 'universal' language for business and tourism. In the US it's the same thing. The marketplace is demanding that services be provided in Spanish as well as English, because a significant and growing percentage of their client base is Spanish-speaking. It doesn't make good business sense to snub that market just because of an 'attitude' towards Spanish and Spanish-speakers. Whether we like it or not, the reality is that Spanish is becoming the defacto 2nd language of the US. Those who know both Spanish and English make themselves more marketable in the US business environment.

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[Ray N. Grant]

As I understand it, in Hindu culture it represents the same thing as for women, that he's married. It's just that women are more likely to wear the dot more frequently to 'advertise' their marital status (and somewhat of a cultural 'requirement'), where as for men, it isn't as much of a 'requirement'. When men do wear it, it's usually during religious holidays.

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