Matt22044

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    Don’t feel bad about yourself, because it happens to a good number of people who go yacking on the Internet. By nature you’re seeking a mate, whether you want to seek a mate or not, and by meeting this medium where people are visualized by text floating across the screen, people are bound to take a liking for one another, as they have always done. But you must realize, first, that no matter how much you think you know about this person, you do not know them. Even with no malice in the picture at all, the person at the console is not wholly the person in the text. You have an image of this person, reading his words and painting a picture as one tends to do, in a dream-like fantasy that can only bring you inward. Despite the few fairy tales one hears on the news and talk shows, Internet relationships don’t work. They’re based on a world that does not exist. As one pursues this relationship with a person who exists only within phone cables, his real life diminishes, and he becomes alone. My suggestion to you is to stay in the real world, and date real people. Even if this guy is the most honest fellow in the world and isn’t lying about who he is, your relationship will be a pit of misery and loneliness, though at times you may believe you are happy. Unless you’re rich enough to move to a new city every time you get a new boyfriend, I suggest you keep your real-life relations in your real life. The Internet is good for forums and opinion gathering. It is a foolish place to find dates.

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    Name : Matt22044, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 23, City : Somewhere, State : TN, Country : United States, Occupation : Software Engineer/Musician, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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