[Marcia22192]

I have noticed the same thing, both in myself and in my friends. I am in my mid-30’s now and married to a great guy. But while I was in my 20’s, I was hopelessly attracted to selfish men who had completely unreasonable ideas about what a relationship meant (everything revolved around their needs; mine were ignored). I have seen the same trend in many women, particularly in their late 20’s and early 30’s. These are women who are very attractive, smart, with good jobs, and from loving families. My theory is that these women are really ambivalent about being in a relationship — they feel they want one desperately, but constantly pick guys who are afraid of commitment and who are too selfish to ever have a real relationship. Most women who are raised to be independent are truly afraid of being ‘swallowed up’ by a relationship; but society pressures them to find a man, so they find themselves attracted to men who will never really end up working. Just a theory.

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Name : Marcia22192, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : San Francisco, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Sales, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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