Lisa22817

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    It could be:
    Your body language – If you’re sitting or standing in a manner that says ‘Get away’ or ‘Don’t come near me,’ people will stay away and not come near you. Or if your body language suggests the opposite – many guys steer clear of women who seem too inviting or desperate. Or maybe you just seem (unintentionally) uninterested or busy. Many guys tell me their first impression of me was that of aloofness or arrogance (both couldn’t be further from the truth), but I can see how someone else could say/see that because I’m in my own world most of the time.

    It could be:
    That they’re intimidated by your appearance. Many men feel insecure in the presence of an attractive woman. On the other hand, some men view perfectly attractive women as brainless Buffy’s only concerned with their hair and clothes.

    It could be a number of things, but don’t beat yourself over it. Just try to feel comfortable with yourself and hopefully others will feel at ease with you, also. And lastly, don’t think about it. You never find things when you’re looking for them or waiting for them to happen.

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    Name : Lisa22817, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, City : Gaithersburg, State : MD, Country : United States, 
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