[Kris26221]

I am a young woman who goes for the nice guys, and I can only tell you my opinion. I know many people, men and women, who feel the same way. I figure that you are trying to ‘woo’ women by showing your nice side first. You are assuming that you are meeting women who value that! The plain truth is: Don’t give them the nice guy unless you are sure that they deserve it. If you make yourself too open, available and giving to someone who will not appreciate it, than it’s going to be “give them an inch and they will take a mile.” Overall, it sounds to me as though you are not meeting the kind of women you want. It sickens me because I know firsthand that feeling like this makes you frustrated and bitter. Your nice girl is out there as sure, as you are out there, too! Reevaluate where you are going to meet these women. Don’t start treating women like ‘whores’ indiscriminately or you will perpetutate the same thing you are trying to absolve. Remember the golden rule – perhaps those you have met have been in your position. You have also got to stop taking peoples’ inability to return your kindness personally. Don’t let this handful or peoples’ behavior determine your reality of yourself or the world – let alone change you from a kind soul to a jerk.

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Name : Kris26221, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 24, City : Wharton, State : NJ, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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