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I love it, in part because the other option is to have a penis … NO way. Also, I love the smell, the texture, the way she fits inside me; it’s a completely self-contained emotion. Does my partner honor it? Yes, I think so. I wouldn’t be with somebody who didn’t.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I’m not a guy but a woman who loves women, so I am writing. I like my women to be a little bit trimmed. Bald feels like I’m with a child, and overgrown is kind of in the way, but trimmed … oh, yes. Easier to keep up with, also.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Never having been to New York, I can’t verify why the neighborhoods would be segregated, although it does sound like it is self-imposed. My friend is a very devout Jew from Brooklyn, and this being my only experience with New York Jews, I can say he has absolutely no problem with those of African descent. What you see might be some sort of cultural miscommunication. I’m not sure.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,My dear, you are most certainly NOT the only one who enjoys pain. I know several folks who are into various fetishes. Pain highlights pleasure. You comment that you like the feel of the knife on your skin. That’s just a sensation, in the same way some enjoy fur and others satin. Or something scratchy. I don’t know much about fetish clubs in the United Kingdom, but I know we have them here. You can learn from each other, how to have pain without permanent damage. And how to alternate the pain with pleasure. We can take so much more pain when we have pleasure… you’d be amazed. As to the evolutionary purpose of pain being pleasure, I really don’t know. It might have something to do with ‘too much’ pleasure being painful. I just know what I like.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,The theory behind this is that people who are well-fed are less likely to drive themselves to martyrdom. If, on the other hand, you have nothing, and for the foreseeable future are likely to continue to have nothing, then why not go on a suicide bomb mission? The people who ‘have’ are not the ones who want change – it’s the ones who have nothing that want change. Life can’t get any worse. No, they won’t ‘like’ us for it, but that’s not the point.
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,With a boy: booooring. I’d say ‘man,’ but we were 18 and he was not exactly a ‘man’ yet, and neither was I properly a ‘woman’ at that age. With a woman: fantastic!
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I really hope you don’t give up on this guy- like somebody else posted, it’ll reinforce his feelings that he shouldn’t tell you, make him feel low again. Talking about it is probably a good thing- that’s what I hear from survivors. Let him know that you still care for him, and that you’ll listen to him. With a lot of patience, domination fantasies can be used as the later part of his healing… it’s a chance to ‘re-write’ the script that he played out so many years ago, to end it in a way that is healing to him. Then again, he may just want to have fun. Not sure how his psyche is; this *is* something to be careful of with an abuse survivor; he’s likely to be into shaming fantasies, which probably won’t help him at all. Something where his ‘dom’ tells him what a wonderful boy he is might be better. Builds him up a bit. I dated a guy who had abuse issues… lack of drive and of erection was a biggie. He got therapy and is now doing very well. Good luck- sounds like you have a keeper!
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Name : Kerry, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Wiccan, Age : 31, City : Ventura, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Stagehand, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
