[KateCN]

Ever heard of stigma management? I used to wonder why lesbians as a group were so quiet, almost invisible, until I purposively sought them out because I faced up to my own sexual orientation (at this late phase in my life). I have always been heterosexual, been married, and had a child. It is so difficult to imagine what it is like to be discriminated against in a heterosexist society if you are heterosexual yourself. A male gay friend of mine has the ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell! policy, and it works perfectly for him.

Instead of saying anything to your friend about this, show her that you are a person who is tolerant and accepting of differences. That may just do the trick.

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Name : KateCN, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : Asian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 46, City : QC, State : NA, Country : Philippines, Occupation : Teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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