[Kakri]

I feel some discomfort if it is either openly or tacitly assumed that everyone is heterosexual, or that everyone is comfortable in the gender they have been assigned and with the activities considered suitable for that gender. To some extent this has affected me in all the situations you mentioned. It feels as if I had to be prepared to counter an attack all the time. I have met several people who, when asked, are pro gay rights (and I have no reason to suppose they are lying), but who, in casual everyday chatter, seem to suppose everyone is heterosexual, even though they know I’m not. This makes me feel as if I were non-existent to them. I cannot feel really close to those people.

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Name : Kakri, Sexual Orientation : non-categorizable sexual orientation, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 38, City : Helsinki, State : NA, Country : Finland, Occupation : Software engineer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, 

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