[Jocelyn30575]

I noticed in the replies that the female said ‘no, don’t enlarge’ but the male said ‘yes, tell her to enlarge and do it together’ since it would help her self-esteem. As we females have the inside track and actually have to put up with the breasts, let me say this: you men may equate size with self-esteem but most women have matured beyond that. Getting a breast enlargement may not be the answer for your girlfriend. Also take in to account that larger breasts cause back pain, enlargements may work for some people but will make others completely miserable, and the decision should be hers alone. Trying to influence her either way brings about a possibility that she’ll end up doing or not doing something so that she can please you, which you my find very gratifying but may make her miserable in the long run. Instead of saying yes or no, I would recommend that you talk to her about why she feels the way she does and if she’s serious about pursuing the enlargement, get the info and let her go over it and decide if the benefits outweigh the risks for her personal situation. If her insecurities are media-driven then the implants aren’t going to help; there will be another issue once that is fixed. This country is so fixated on youthful feminine beauty that it’s thrown at us, shoved down our throats, and we’re made to feel inferior, not thin enough, not voluptuous enough. Young women have a hard time learning to love themselves b/c of the stereotype that we’re supposed to cram ourselves into in order to be ‘beautiful’. It took quite a while for me to realize that being 5’9′, 150lbs, and a size B cup are just fine and quite beautiful in my own unique way.

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Name : Jocelyn30575, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Taoist, Age : 26, City : Roanoke, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : artist, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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