[Jami]

Cherishing your virginity is a personal choice. I lost mine at 18, to someone I really love, and we may or may not be together forever, but I loved him at the time, and to me, that's what mattered. I cherished it enough to lose it to someone I loved. Just because I didn't wait unil marriage doesn't mean I didn't cherish it. To me, it's more practical to lose it before I'm married, because I don't want my wedding night to be spent in pain. Losing it isn't like waxing your eyebrows or ripping a Band-aid off. It hurts pretty much until you're done, and I knew that coming in. Also, I don't want to get married until I'm in my late 20s, and I have a high sex drive. I don't think there's a right answer to this, because losing your virginity is a personal choice. I know many people who are waiting umtil their wedding day, and I applaud them; it takes a lot of self-control.

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Name : Jami, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 19, City : Pullman, State : WA Country : United States, Occupation : College Student, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[Jami]

The Bible is not a genetics textbook, for one. And second, how many gay people have you met that told you, 'I felt like making my life harder to live, so I chose to be gay.' One common reason for teen suicide is the teen not being able to live with the criticism and harrassment from their peers about their sexual orientation. Don't you think that if they would change to 'fit in' they would?

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Name : Jami, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 19, City : Pullman, State : WA Country : United States, Occupation : College Student, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[Jami]

My parents weren't ok with me drinking, butmy cousin and her friend introduced it to me at 16. I'd never done anything to disobey my parents before, so it was a rush to start, so I did it more and more. My cousin didn't think it was a big deal because her mom let her drink when she was 15. All these people who are saying NEVER let them before 21 are giving rebelious teenagers a reason to drink. As teenagers, we want to rebel, and drinking is a way to do that if you make alcohol an unspoken taboo. Its like saying DON'T HAVE SEX...people are going to wonder what the big deal is, and they'll experiment.

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Name : Jami, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 19, City : Pullman, State : WA Country : United States, Occupation : College Student, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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