[Jake]

I’ve had many difficulties in my life finding/dating women who were a match for me. Eventually I learned that the pain inside came from not feeling good about myself. I learned to put aside my interest in romance/sex for the time being to give me room to do a lot of self-therapy. I’ve been making good progress, and as I grow in honestly and deeply feeling good and confident about myself, I’m frankly less interested in dating. In other words, I’m much less desperate than I used to be. Ironically, I find women are more attracted to me. I can understand this; even though (like many people) my interest in the opposite sex is a mixture of ‘outside’ and ‘inside,’ I’ve met women who I found VERY attractive largely because of their confidence (true confidence, not ‘ego’) and good feelings about themselves, even though I found them physically unattractive. If anyone’s interested in what got me started on my path of personal development, check out books by Nathaniel Branden. He has a lot of good ideas that have helped me do some necessary and rewarding ‘psychological housecleaning.’

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Name : Jake, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 28, City : Oakland, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Systems Administrator, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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