[Jacqueline-C21000]

I would like to say that feelings are never ‘wrong’ or ‘irrational.’ We don’t control our feelings, they just exist. The actions you choose to take reguarding your feelings is an entirely different matter. As for your specific situation – your 50-year-old father dating a 20-year-old woman – I would probably feel the same way you do if I were in your situation. Whenever I see tremendous difference in age between a couple, I have to wonder what the driving force is in the relationship. What is motivating these people to be together? For a healthy relationship to develop and last, the people involved have to have similar ways of looking at the world. In your case, your father has lived a lifetime and a half longer than his girlfriend, how similar can their outlooks be? I would be very worried about what is motivating them both.

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Name : Jacqueline-C21000, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 26, City : San Jose, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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