[Dawn]

I am a 40-year-old woman and have had male friends, straight and gay, throughout my life. The reason I believe women don’t mind the fondling from gay men is that it is nonconfrontational, and a way to feel attractive without feeling pressure to ‘put out’. Gay men, generally, are very attentive and affectionate, and women love that. It is so refreshing to have an honest male point of view about things that straight men don’t normally show an interest in, such as fashion and decorating. The openness of such a relationship is quite extraordinary and can be very intense and loving, with none of the usual anxieties that go along with being with men (we can ask “Do I look fat?” or “Am I sounding stupid?”). Gay men tend to be very understanding, sweet, fun and the best friends women could have. The physical aspect comes quite naturally and feels good.

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Name : Dawn, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Fibromyalgia/PTSD, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 40, City : New Britain, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : Disabled, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Upper middle class, 

[Dawn]

I, too, have noticed this, especially when I lived and worked in California for 13 years. Those who spoke spanish at my job got paid better salaries. There has been quite the internal debate going on in my mind…I believe in and am very proud of the ‘melting pot’ that is the United States, we are different from other countries in that regard. We are accepting and accommodating to all. That is a GOOD thing, normally…but at the same time, I would get very frustrated that I was expected to just conform to the Mexican culture rather than the other way around. I understand that it must be hard to move your family to a new country and try to start a new life, and in most ways I am glad we are making it easier for them to assimilate by making spanish speaking readily available, yet at the same time, I do wish they would try harder. It just seems to me that some (not all) are ungrateful and expect us to bend over backwards to accommodate them.

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Name : Dawn, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Fibromyalgia/PTSD, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 40, City : New Britain, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : Disabled, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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