[Colin]

As a gay guy emerging from the closet at 30, I strongly feel that asking someone if he or she is queer is intrusive and wrong. If you ask such a question just to satisfy your curiosity, tough. But, if you only want to facilitate a better relationship, your best bet is to make it known that you’re not homophobic (or bi- or trans- phobic) and support FULL civil rights for LGBT people. This serves everyone better and avoids you poking your nose where it doesn’t belong. Further, it sidesteps the troublingly accusatory, ‘Are you gay?’ Respect everyone, queer or straight, and always let it be clearly known that you are not an oppressor.

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Name : Colin, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Human, Religion : Science, Age : 30, City : Berkeley, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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