[Cheryl-H32317]

I am wondering what you are labeling as masculine and feminine. For example, are you talking about appearance, or behavior or both? Let’s say, for example, you observed a couple in which one person had long hair, the other had short. That could be as simple as personal style preference. If they both had long hair would that make them both “fem?” If you observed behavior that might be labeled masculine/feminine was it just that one held the door for the other? Who got to the door first?

I have been racking my brain trying to come up with examples of couples I know personally who play the butch/femme role game. You know, like some straight couples still do. Not one pair comes to mind. All the lesbians I know express their preferences in appearance and behavior without regard to what some consider masculine and feminine. Lesbians like women and are comfortable conducting themselves without regard for gender roles and constraints. Don’t try to put a “male + female” model on a lesbian relationship. There isn’t one for a reason.

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Name : Cheryl-H32317, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, City : New Haven, State : CT, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, 

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