[Brodiem]

There seems to be a belief, from what I have seen, in many of the poorer black communities among black females that men come and go but the children will love them forever. Moreover, in the poorer black communities the younger black females, themselves the product of single-female parent households, not only accept the life around them but embrace it. The girls expect to live in the same community their entire life. They do not expect to take advantage of higher education, get a good job, and they never expect to be exposed to other cultures. These girls have no idea what having a career is that is rewarding is as opposed to a job that pays the bills. In many ways they are cut off. They are told, by their peers, that being a mom is as good as it gets. As crude as it sounds, these girls look forward to the pleasures of sex, and the love of their babies. In many cases it was the path of their mothers, and grandmothers.

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Name : Brodiem, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 44, City : Newburgh, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : public sector, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Brodiem]

I think that most psychological professionals define a ‘fetish’ as an activity that is chosen instead of traditional sex. For example, there a people, mostly men, that get sexually excited by womens high heel shoes, and they are incapable of enjoying sex unless a woman’s high heel shoe is somehow involved in the act. In other words a person might choose rubbing his crotch with a high heel shoe over intercourse to climax. That is how I understand a ‘fetish’. Now it sounds to me that tickling to you is a form a foreplay that leads to sex, as opposed to doing it instead of sex. Tickling is a mystery. It’s not pain, yet it can be used as a form of torture. My theory is that tickle is pleasure taken to an extreme beyond the body’s ability to handle it. Then there are people that are not ticklish at all although I believe that they are not ticklish in the common areas that most people are. Its fascinating to me that tickling make feet and arm pits vulnerable parts of the body, and more many they are the most repulsive parts of the body. The bottom line is that if it is what you enjoy and your partner can handle it then go for it. I think you doubts are routed in the fears of people you know being tickled. Follow your heart and not the fears of others.

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Name : Brodiem, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 44, City : Newburgh, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : public sector, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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