[Bethany19541]

As a female I would like to state for the record that the size of a man’s penis DOES matter but not nearly as much as his technique. Guys who are very well endowed seem to think that by the virtue of their penis size they will always be good in bed and that all they have to do is keep it hard and keep ramming her and she should be in heaven. Again I’m a female here and I know that this lack of technique just hurts. On the other hand I had a boyfriend whom I wouldn’t have intercourse with partly because of his penis size. He has an inch and a half fully erect. I had no idea how he was going to keep a condom on, so no sex. BUT his small size make him perfect for oral sex and I was perfectly happy making him orgasm three times in one date. Penis size is not the most important thing in a sexual relationship, finding out what your partner likes and wants is. I was engaged to a guy for about three years before we finally broke up and we didn’t have sex for about a year and half before we did. The reason: He couldn’t or wouldn’t do what I needed in bed. He had very low self esteem and probably thought that everything he did was wrong, that made him timid and nothing I did could cure him of that. I need a guy who can have sex with me without me having to initiate anything. I can’t stand a guy who asks if we can have sex, just freakin’ start something and if I say no well I hate to admit this but if you’re in a solid stable relationship sometimes no means ‘no’ and sometimes no ‘means try harder to convince me’. Technique is everything, confidence is everything; if you honestly think it’s your penis size go buy an extention (they look like penises with a condom rolled around them) or a strap on (they make them for guys with erectile dysfunction) and use it without telling her you’re going to and see what her response is. However from personal experience I can tell you (and I honestly think that this is your problem) that gentle lovemaking is great every now and then, but most women like it rough at least sometimes. Hope this helps.

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Name : Bethany19541, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Mutt, Age : 24, City : Davison, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Technician, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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