[Angela24945]

First, make sure you daughter does not develop a dislike for black people based on these two jerks, who happen to be black. They come in all colors. Second, tell her to step back and take this for the lesson it is intended to be. She must learn to stand up and not be intimidated by anyone. If this were a war and they were the enemy, would she let them beat her psychologically? Hell no. And you can bet her higher-ups are watching to see how this Air Force cadet handles this situation because they know she will deal with worse than this in war time. This is really a training ground for her to develop a tough skin. I had a manager who decided that I would be the person to whom she would vent her anger in life. Well, I was like your daughter until my mom said pray about it. And I did. I began to realize that this woman was a very unhappy person in her personal life and that it was not about me. It was her problem, not mine. Then I began to be able to not let her bother me so much. In fact, I began to see the humor in it all and how silly she was being. The laughing helped her lose her wind because she saw I was no longer afraid of her. Incidentally, God used me to change her life, because when she was down I was the only one who had the heart to show compassion, though she did not deserve it from me, of all people. It changed her because she remembered how mean she was to me when I extended myself to her.

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Name : Angela24945, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 29, City : Atlanta, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : mom, wife, writer, Education level : 2 Years of College, 

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