[ACC24033]

When I was still single, I placed a few ads when I was in my late twenties and got some pretty discouraging responses. Some women said some things I suppose they thought would endear themselves or were attempts at humor. One made a crack about Latin lovers, another about spicy this and that. Two New Age women just begged to ‘taught how to live Indian’ and one brought up her alleged past lives. Another actually said ‘you heap big Injun’ in her reply. This kind of paralleled what had happened in my past, where I had one white woman who was actually disappointed I didn’t hit her and confused when I refused to. Something about the ads makes many people say things they would never (I hope) say in person. It’s very disheartening to realize someone wants you to play out a stereotyped fantasy image. I know some Latin and Indian buddies of mine who took advantage of blond white women thinking these things to get lucky. But I never could stomach it. Personal ads tend to attract an older crowd than you find in clubs where people are on the prowl, people who usually want something long term. And I can’t imagine some white woman wanting a ‘Latin lover’ or ‘Indian buck’ would stay in that relationship for long, or that any native or Latin man would once he’d gotten sex. I know not all white women are that way. But enough of you are to make many of us wary, outside of the ones of us out to get laid who don’t care how. I’d say you’d be better off finding decent Latin men at work or church than through ads, which is generally true for everyone.

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Name : ACC24033, Gender : M, Race : Mexican and American Indian, Age : 35, City : w lafayette, State : IN, Country : United States, 

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