[A-Adams]

One of the things we all have to learn in becoming an adult is how to deal with difficult people and bullies. Every situation is different. I notice that you seem to put a lot of emphasis on the race of the people she isn’t getting along with. It leads me to believe that you are really concentrating on the wrong thing in the situation, as if there is an different solution for ‘dealing’ with Black people vs European, Asian, Latino,or Pacific Islanders. There is no single answer that is appropriate. I’m a bit curious as to how she has handled difficult people before in her life, this can’t possibly be the first time. I would hope that first of all she tries to talk with the main person involved: her roommate, preferably alone, in a way that isn’t filled with anger and recriminations, but gives them a chance to clear the air. If things really are as bad as you portray, then she needs to ask for reassignment or start formal harrassment proceduresif she is fearful for her safety. But, personally, it sounds to me mostly like this will be a growth experience for her, one that she shouldn’t shy away from because if she doesn’t deal with it know, she won’t ever learn to.

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Name : A-Adams, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, 

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