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My fiance have decided to wait until we get married to have sex again, and we have been sex free for about 10 months. When we were having sex he wanted to pull all the way out and then push all the way back in again which was really painful for me. He will do it the other way but he likes it better going in and out all the way. I’m really small and I cant take that and I practically cried when he would try it. My question is..is it normal to have sex like he wants to? Should I try to like it more? Is it possible that I would start to not hurt after awhile? I dont really want to have sex like that, but I dont know what to do. He says thats the best way for him to get off, but I know he can the other way too. What should I do? Can you tell if having sex like this is normal, and if it is can you tell me how to like it? But if it isnt, can you tell me how to make him understand what is normal?
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Name : Mel25877, Gender : F, Age : 21, City : se, State : CA, Country : United States,IN my 40+ years of sex with a variety of men, I’ve never encountered anyone that has sex the way you describe. Since you wrote this question in 2005, I don’t know if you married this guy or not. If not, I hope you’ve had “normal sex”. Did you enjoy that more. Sex shouldn’t be painful. If it is, see a gynecologist ASAP. In any case, no guy should bully6 or intimidate you into doing something that gives him satisfaction and gives you physical pain Just Curious
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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Your guy enjoys the feeling of having his entire shaft rubbed against your pubic bone at every stroke, which is not unusual. Instead of judging him as to what’s normal the two of you should simply have an adult discussion about compromise. Since you’re so young and hopefully not getting married for a number of years you’ll have plenty of time to work it out before you have sex again.
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Name : Dot, Gender : Female, Age : none, City : L.A., State : CA, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class,
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