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Would it bother a man if he found a copy of Playgirl at his girlfriend’s house and she told him she used it to fantasize and masturbate? In college, most guys had some form of porn in their house, yet would get really offended when finding even a half-naked picture of a man lying around my place. It seems to me that although men love porn, they can’t handle women lusting after men as sex objects (especially when the men have big penises and beautiful bodies). I think most men suffer from this ‘dish it out but can’t take it’ syndrome. Any views on this?
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Name : Janice20973, Gender : F, Age : 32, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States,I can only speak for myself and not all men, so don’t think all guys would feel the same. I would find it erotic, if not arousing, to know my woman would admit to masturbating, and with pictures to boot. Not many women would admit to that, period, as far as my experiences with women go. I never had a problem admitting my own behaivior, though.
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Name : Beto, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Agnostic, Age : 33, City : Syracuse, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Health Technician, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I think men are usually uncomfortable around naked pictures of other men. Men do not find other men attractive, but even straight women can appreciate a pretty woman. Go figure.
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Name : Karen, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Southern Baptist, Age : 35, City : Sacramento, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Landscape Architect, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Although this situation has never happened to me, I predict that I wouldn’t be bothered by it, unless she was doing it because I didn’t satisfy her enough. Intelligent women talking about sex is extremely arousing (to me), and they should do it more.
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Name : Dan27137, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Human, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 23, City : Fort Lauderdale, State : FL, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I would be completely supportive of a woman interested in the male body. In fact, I’d encourage it. I love Playboy. It’s well-written, sexy, funny and thought-provoking, and it provides a forum where people can speak their minds. Remember Castro’s Playboy interview? I’m sure Playgirl is similar. I’m open-minded, and I’d have no problem with a girlfriend interested in men’s bodies.
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Name : Mike K., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Asian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : Almost 19, City : Montreal, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Actually, I think it is WOMEN who have more of an issue with looking at naked men. Most women either cringe or break into hysterical laughter at the sight. Strange, isn’t it?
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Name : Erin25253, Gender : F, Age : 23, City : St. Paul, State : MN, Country : United States,I would be completely turned on if I found my wife with pictures of naked men. I would not feel threatened at all. My wife and I often watch porn videos, and a big part of the thrill is seeing the well-equipped men and fantasizing about them making love to my wife as I watch. It’s a never-fail fantasy turn-on for us.
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Name : Ed, Gender : M, Age : 36, City : Baltimore, State : MD, Country : United States,I’m a man and it would bother me, I honestly don’t know why either. I have a subscription to playboy and watch a porno movie on tv here and there but thats about it. But it would bother me if my girlfriend had playgirl and watched movies like that. I know im probably going to get griped at about double standards but it’s not like that at all I wouldnt say anything to her because it is double standards. I think it might be that women arefor lack of better words more ’emotionally intelligent’ than us men. And its kind of become a reputational expextation for women to be to smart or however you want to put it to have any pleasure ot of pornography
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Name : CD19342, Gender : M, Religion : Atheist, City : Indianapolis, State : IN, Country : United States,I think the issue is whether the male is secure enough with himself. If you feel that you need to fantasize to help with your masturbation by looking at Playgirl, go for it….I think as a male, I do pretty well by just using the ‘plain old imagination’ good luck with….
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Name : luis, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 48, City : Leeton, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : Professor, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I swear this question has come up many many times, mostly by angry women who suffer from ‘ inferior complex’ syndrome. But really the issue is that you don’t understand how men think! Since when do we feel alright about our men having those type of magazines? But we(not you) know that men are more visual so let it be. Don’t forget, women have erotic novels and the stories about big, powerful men. Do you see men getting angry over that? Men and women think differently, thats all. How would u like it if your man starts telling you erotic stories about a woman that’s nothing like you huh?
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Name : Janet, Gender : F, Age : 32, City : nyc, State : NY, Country : United States,I want some friend who belived me and share of all the matter in life . I am waiting for your repply.
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Name : Raj S, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : Asian, Religion : Hindu, Age : 26, City : Kolkata, State : NA, Country : India, Occupation : Admenistrative, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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