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I’ve been dating the same girl for 3 1/2 years. I am a virgin; she is not. Why won’t she have sex with me? Could it possibly be becasue she is just not attracted to me?
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Name : RJ K., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : Sterling Heights, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Systems Analyst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’d have to say that if your girlfriend has been with you for 3 1/2 years, it’s unlikely that she’s not attracted to you. There’s a lot of information missing from your question that makes it hard to give an opinion. Does she know you are a virgin? Could she be under the impression that you’re a virgin for spiritual reasons? Maybe she’s trying to respect that. Have you spoken to her about your desire to take things further? That’s really the only way you’ll find out her point of view. Maybe she isn’t a virgin and regrets it, and wants to wait until marriage to have sex again. You never know until you ask her.
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Name : Jennifer, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 31, City : St. Paul, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Non-Profit, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It’s possible, but why don’t you try asking her? You don’t mention how old she is. Maybe she’s just not ready. Maybe she prefers to wait until marriage. Maybe she’s had a traumatic experience in the past. Maybe she has a disease and is afraid to tell you about it. Maybe she wants to make sure you’re ‘the one.’ But maybe … she’s just not ready!
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Name : CC19149, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Age : 30, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College,As weird as this may sound…she might simply not want to take your virginity. Something about ‘taking someone’s innocence’ that doesn’t sit well with some people. She’s dated you for 3 and a half years though…so…clearly she cares for you and why stay for that long with someone one is not attracted to? It IS very possible, like the other poster said, that she has been hurt in a very bad way in the past and is afraid.
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Name : Katrina26721, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 21, City : Moses Lake, State : WA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,
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