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My wife has enjoyed anal sex the past few years, and as of late, she has purchased a strap-on toy and now wants to give what she’s been getting. My question is, have any other straight men faced this problem? She is being very persistent about it.
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Name : Pete30378, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Baptist, Age : 31, City : Dayton, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : Management, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class,Our theory here is we will try anything once as long as both parties agree. I’d suggest you just bend over and take it like a man – after all you’ve been on the giving end of it, right? And if you don’t like it, then tell your wife and don’t do it again. I’m sure she will understand. (I tried it and actually liked it so much that we do it all of the time now!)
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Name : Dave, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Rabbi, Education level : Less than High School Diploma,I find it amusing that you call it a problem. My wife and I have both given and received in this manner. There are two issues here, I believe. The first is the lack of consideration. Intimacy requires good communication. If your wife is not taking into account your wishes, then something is not right. If you are truly against trying this, she should respect that. Make sure you are open and honest about it. The second issue is why are you against it? I’m not trying to persuade you if you really don’t want, but from what I’ve read here on Y?Forum it seems that a lot of people are afraid that being anally penetrated makes them gay in some sort of way. Don’t get hung up on this stigma, if that’s the issue. If you are engaging in some sort of act with your wife, then no matter what it is, it is still a heterosexual experience. Two lesbians with a strap-on are not consider bisexual, so this doesn’t make you bisexual either.
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Name : Me21896, Gender : M, Age : 27, City : San Francisco Bay Area, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I guess if your wife is persistent and that makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s a problem. But I’d suggest trying it out, at least once. It’s a matter of being relaxed, making sure your arse is clean, using lubricant, stimulating with fingers first and then building up to penetration. The old stigma is that it will make you gay. I doubt that; after all, we are sexually attracted to the whole person, not just to what their genitals can do for us.
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Name : Ben S., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 31, City : sydney, State : NA, Country : Australia, Occupation : Public servant, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,My wife began to stimulate my anus during oral sex and then moved up to a strap-on, and I am a straight male and love it. The orgasms are so much more intense with anal penetration, mostly because of the prostrate stimulation and the contractions around the anus. The first time she did that, I thought my head was going to fly off when I reached orgasm because it was so intense. Give it a try and use plenty of lube. And no, it does not make you gay if you enjoy anal stimulation.
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Name : John29283, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 36, City : Toledo, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : sales, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Go for it man… it’s your wife… I you like the finger you’ll love it!
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Name : Toni, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 17, City : Las Vegas, State : NV, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : Less than High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Yummy. I enjoy giving and receiving myself. Many straight men enjoy it and I say try it!
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Name : Mistress Obscene, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 29, City : Fort Worth, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Health, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class,It doesn’t make you gay to like it, but it doesn’t make you a homophobe to not like it. I’m a really open-minded person, but the thought of being anally penetrated horrifies me. I can’t possibly image anything bigger than a doctor’s finger going up there – and even that’s uncomfortable. And I know women are the same way. I’ve had girlfriends give me a preempitive categorical No! and others who have begged for it.
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Name : Sean, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 35, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I fully understand, my fiancee started fingering me anally and I really enjoy it. However I have not been approched with the strap-on thing yet, but I figure she will soon and I will be shaky about it like it is an anti-straight thing but that’s how I felt about the anal fingering, too, so I suggest try it once; if you hate it don’t do it agan – if you like it, good deal.
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Name : Shifity, Gender : M, Age : 20, City : mobile, State : AL, Country : United States, Social class : Lower middle class,It’s a video, you can get it from goodvibes.com. It doesn’t have to be a ‘problem’ 🙂
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Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Secular Humanist, Age : 36, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I have been receiving anal stimulation for about the last year now and love it now that I am comfortable with my wife having a Strap-On. My wife was loaned a video called ‘Bend Over Boyfriend’ from one of her co-workers and was fascinated by what she saw and wanted to try giving me anal stimulation. The first time she used her finger while giving me oral sex and I thought my head was going to explode when I came. From there, she moved her way through various toys until I was ready to accept a Strap-on back there. To be honest, the mental excitement I get from my wife pentrating me and the role reversal with her being the dominator combined with the sensations that the strap-on gives my prostrate, are the BEST orgasms that I have ever had in my life. If women want to give their man the most INTENSE orgasm a guy can experience, strap one on! So my advice is for you to relax and let her take you from behind, you will really enjoy the intimacy, role reversal, and sensations you get from having her strap one on.
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Name : Steve27645, Gender : M, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States,
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