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It could be my imagination, but I’m white and have noticed that girls of different races are much more attracted to me than white girls. I would never ask this in real life because people would be like, ‘Yeah, right, you wish,’ but I know it’s true. Is there a certain kind of white guy they prefer? Is it my un-hostile, nice attitude? My physical features? Or is it my imagination?
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Name : Chris, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 18, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,I would hazard to guess that they sense you are someone who is more interested in the person they are rather than the color (or lack of) of their skin. You are probably easy to talk to, not afraid of being honest and like women in general. We women are quick to pick up on men who are apt to respect us and treat us as if we are more than a body – even if our body happens to not be so good. I am a 45-year-old black woman, and my husband is a 35-year-old white male. It was the qualities mentioned above that attracted me to him. He also was not afraid of what others thought when we were together and took no notice of the stares we would sometimes elicit. Him being so at ease with me, no matter where we were, was very endearing. We have been together for 10 years, have two sons, and I am still crazy about him.
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Name : Donna P., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : African Methodist Episcopalian, Age : 45, City : Waterford, State : CT, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,The term non-white is very broad. I think you would need to be more specific about the women who are attracted to you for anybody to take a stab at why they are attracted to you.
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Name : Lucy22395, Gender : F, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), City : San Jose, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It’s your un-hostile, nice attitude. Before I met my wife, black women (and to some extent Asian women) flirted with me constantly, probably because they perceived that I was not only available, but that I tend to value people for what they are rather than what they look like or what color they are. I found this threatening. Why? Well, to be blunt, I wanted a wife of my own race. (Nobody would have a problem with this if I were black or Asian, and I don’t expect anyone to have a problem with this because I am white.) I never said ‘absolutely, absolutely never’, but I had a strong preference for my family to be of one race. I refuse to feel bad about this choice, but sometimes I have to wonder how different things would have been if I’d let nature run its course.
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Name : Augustine23569, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 41, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,This is an open forum on which not that many people, I would suspect, know much enough about you to answer such your personal questions! Strange isn’t it? Well how about this one, Why do women GENERALLY find ME MOST ATTRACTIVE? Sounds silly doesn’t it? WELL I KNOW!!!!!! Go ask your uncle, maybe!!!
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Name : Given C, Gender : M, Race : Black/African American, Age : 27, City : London, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,it’s called white envy. many ‘non-whites’ are think white guys are more attractive. it’s the whole assimulation thing. This does NOT apply to every girl. Some may just like you as a person and hope you feel the same about them.
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Name : Kayla, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Asian, Age : 17, City : Banff, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : student, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,I’ve been where you are. Black women in general were not interested in me (back when I was a young man). And I am a handsome smart guy. I am 6’3′, very athletic and muscular. White women and Asian women were always approaching me and very aggresively might I add. I turned them away for years, even hurting some feelings along the way (which I did not like, some of the ladies were very sweet). At about the age of 23, I opened up and started dating women that were interested in me regardless of race. I lived with a chinese women for sometime and have many fond memories of that time. I’ve also dated whites, and latins. To me a woman is a woman. I do not look at race. I don’t even believe in the concept of it. I’ve met people that are supposed to be of one race and they look like another. I’ve given up on the concept.
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Name : Charles, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 38, City : Portland, State : OR, Country : United States, Occupation : Network Admin, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Perhaps you approach the girls differently or are nicer than the other boys. You probably don’t give out the impression that race is an issue and actually notice that girls exist outside of one race. Do you feel that you don’t want these girls to approach you?
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Name : Kate26825, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, City : Jenks, State : OK, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class,Like the other respondent said, ‘non-white’ is too broad. I am Hispanic, however, and I can tell you that I and most of the people that I know would preferably date a white guy over their own ethnicity. I see this in Hispanics more than than in African-Americans, who are often more disdainful of whites, probably because the former have likewise descended from European countries and see white as the ideal.
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Name : Jane, Gender : F, Age : 20, City : L.A., State : CA, Country : United States,
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