[Joseph29108]

I’m a guy who hates sex. Let me rephrase that: I dislike sex. Some girls I’ve been with ask me if I’m gay, but I’m not. I’ve been with girls not because I wanted to, but because they guide me to bed and sex. I once tried sex with a guy friend. We got drunk and ended up trying to have sex, but I thought it was more repulsive than with women. Why don’t I like sex? I like guys and girls, but not sexually – only as friends. Is there anything wrong with me?

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Name : Joseph29108, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : asexual, Race : Italian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 26, City : Miami, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Computer Science, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class, 

[Ashley]

I’m a virgin, so I can’t really say that I like sex, but I like everything else, so I would think I would enjoy it! But let’s think about some of the psychological aspects of you not ‘liking’ sex. First, what about it don’t you like? Was your first sexual experience bad? Were you raped or sexually abused somehow when you were younger? When you were a child were you told sex was a bad thing?

I don’t think you’re weird, I just think there are some issues, perhaps, that you need to sort out. I would expect that if you have sex with a person you deeply love, and who respects you, it would be much easier to like. Drop me a line if you need to talk things out.

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Name : Ashley, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, City : South Central Kentucky, State : KY, Country : United States, Occupation : Student/Insurance Receptionist, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Crystal]

In addition to counseling, you might want to get yourself to a doctor for a complete physical. You may have an endocrine or hormonal disorder, or clinical depression. Consider a visit to an acupuncturist and/or ayurvedic practitioner as well; they can often help what Western medicine is inadequate to address.

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Name : Crystal, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 30's, City : Oakland, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Office manager, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Michael C.]

A few questions are in order. You used the word ‘repulsive.’ Is it the contact with someone else (or their presence) that causes the reaction? Do you masturbate? And if you do, do you fantasize? (And about what?) How long have you had these feelings? For a lot of people, sex – just sex – without the context of a relationship with someone where ‘everything clicks’ just isn’t in the cards. Pressuring yourself to have sex outside of the emotional context that is right for you can set up a vicious cyle that may end up keeping you from finding the right person/relationship where sex is enjoyable. If the problem isn’t on the emotional side, but ‘mechanics’ there are more solutions today than ever. It doesn’t even have to be Viagra. Sometimes it’s just a matter of finding what feels good to you (when you do it yourself) and then hooking up with a partner who can do just that – thank heaven for the internet!

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Name : Michael C., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Methodist, Age : 38, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Intranet Manager, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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