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When I see a guy I am attracted to, I instantly think ‘Wow, he’s hot,’ and while I don’t exactly think sexual thoughts, I sometimes feel myself blushing, just from how hot he is. If I am talking with a guy I find attractive, I am turned on by the sound of his (deep) voice, his glances and smiles and his strong hands. To men: What exactly goes through your head when you see a woman, either a stranger or someone you know, whom you find sexually attractive? What are you thinking when you look a woman up and down? Do your thoughts continue after she is out of sight?
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Name : Caylie, Gender : F, City : Az, State : NA, Country : United States,I honestly think how good we’d look together i picture myself with her and see in my head how we would or could be together. sometimes i say stuff like shes hot (to clean it up a bit) and yeah if she’s ‘hot’ enough or hard to forget i would think of her after she’s gone.
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Name : n/a, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 21, City : chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Straight human males are genetically-driven to scrutinize a passing woman to determine whether or not she would be a suitable repository for his DNA via his semen. We have evolved to prefer certain characteristics that usually indicate youth, health, and child-bearing ability. None of this is going through our heads when we’re turned on by a woman. More likely, we’re thinking along the lines of ‘Damn! Look at that fine ass!’ We also notice your smell, your hair, your clothes, your voice, etc. It depends on the women. We might find your smile magical, your eyes enchanting, or maybe that space in the middle of your front teeth drives us crazy.
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Name : Rick19477, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, City : Springfield, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I start to shiver, as if I’m cold, though it may be mid Summer. One guy I know tends to hide his face – puts his arm in front of his eyes or diverts his eyes. He’s in his early 30s. Actually the thoughts then diminish very quickly after the encounter.
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Name : Dan, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 45, City : L.A., State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : manager, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It starts with an overall body assesment, if the assesment is favorable, a desire to ‘acquire’ them and engage in sex begins to form. I don’t visualize sex at that moment, there is just this energy that stirs, it’s a sort of stalking,predatory feeling. This is accompanied by a self-conscousness about the obvious looking and desiring. If I find them terribly sexy, thoughts might come up later that involve visualizing sex. If I get to know her a little bit, her personailty may dampen or enhance the desire. Before I get to know her as a real person and not just some desirable object, everything is at a more or less primitive level. If we become friends,however, those feelings of desiring her on an objectified level begin to feel awkward and wrong. But eventually, the liking of the person and the appreciation of her figure may mix into an even richer concoction of desire. Question for you, when men look at you for a prolonged period does it feel like a sort of small violation? Where do you draw the line between an appreciative glance and an ‘ogling’?
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Name : clay19500, Gender : M, Age : 37, City : denton, State : TX, Country : United States,Men think about how good our dicks would feel sliding in and out of her.Or the sensation we would get when she wraps her lips around our dicks.Every mans first thoughts when he sees a beautiful woman is hot nasty sex.Then we may fall in love.
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Name : Rick, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : a hole, Religion : Jewish, Age : 30, City : boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : actor, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I don’t know what other men think, I am afraid that I could be different. For me, I feel a sort of lifting feeling deep inside my heart, or a sorrowful, sinking feeling there.
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Name : George *******, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Social class : Upper middle class,As women usually dress, they want to emphasize their curves – and usually they succeed. So when a woman appears at a distance, the first thing you look are her curves – thighs, hips, waist and chest. If you like what you see, you think ‘Wow, what a piece of @$$!’ As she approaches, you can analyze her other attributes: wide hips (thighs included), (absence of) belly, large chest. If your eyes weren’t mistaken and she’s really hot, you think ‘Wow, she’s damn hot!’ Notice this man’s got his attention solely on her forms – he’s not thinking of HOW he’d have sex with her, the fact that he would do it if he could is determined as soon as he’s assured she’s hot. Closer, he’ll raise his eyes and check her face to know if during intercourse he’d have to look away… If she’s too ugly, he’ll look away, feel disgusted and/or not even look at her behind. Closer, he checks her cleavage again and when she passes him by, he turns around to check her behind. If she’s too hot he’ll feel a certain affliction – the desire is too much for him to just walk on. As his mind clears, he might think of what sexual positions he would do with her – that depends on his tastes and her attributes. If he’s got a friend with him, they will always comment about ‘that piece of @$$’, even if only an exchange of glances. If she is a friend of the man then he’s used to her curves but he will still be amazed by revealing clothes and make-up. And he will still think sexually of her. Now, if one man is talking to a hot woman with big breasts and specially if that woman has a revealing cleavage, he’ll do his best to look her into her eyes and not into her cleavage – I’m not kidding here. Lips, eyes, hair, hands and nails, jewelry, clothes and shoes all play their part in mesmerizing a man, depending on the man’s tastes. But skin, scent/perfume, gait and voice can rend all those things (even curves) mere details – that’s what being a woman is about, I believe. That’s why you don’t have to be a Gisele Bündchen to win the man you desire.
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Name : Mr. Bennet, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 25, City : BH, State : NA, Country : Brazil, Occupation : Biologist, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I have basically the same thing minus the blushing. I can feel my heart beat faster, I get more optimistic all of a sudden. I have the same not quite sexual thoughts. And yes they continue after she is out of sight. Usually for about 15 min or so.
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Name : DanielPfalmer, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Fairbanks, State : AK, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,
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