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I have heard a number of black men say they date white women because they are more submissive than black women. Are there really black men out there who date white women for this reason?
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Name : Kayla26511, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 24, City : Toronto, Ontario, State : NA, Country : Canada, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Black men date white women because the kids come out better looking. Straighter hair, thinner nose and lips and lighter skin. All qualities that are considered better looking in America. Let’s face it, to me, black look like monkeys.
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Name : Carol-Bing, City : waldorf, State : MD, Country : United States,I think men would like to date ANY woman who is submissive, regardless of race. As an Asian-American female, the predominant stereotype of us is mostly as ‘submissive.’ We all as women need to stop letting ourselves do this and also tell men (whoever they are) that we refuse to be submissive.
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Name : Terri24700, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Asian, City : Maplewood, State : MN, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College,I have often heard this statement made as well when referring to black men, especially in America where I am from. From experience I will tell you that this is widely overblown, but this is no different than other stereotypes that exist for other kinds of women and men, for that matter. I for one, cannot attest to dating any ‘submissive’ white women though or date them for this reason.
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Name : Tristan, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Mormon, Age : 23, City : Jo'burg, State : NA, Country : South Africa, Occupation : Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am a white female. I HAVE BEEN APPROACHED AT WORK BY BLACK MALES WHO SEEM TO BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON ME, INSIST THAT I go to lunch with them, and/or invite them to my home! MY RESPONSE TO THESE RACIST/SEXUAL HARRASSERS IS TO GO TO MANAGEMENT, KEEP A RECORD OF WHAT IS HAPPENING, AND CONSULT THE SUPERVISOR. ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS, I HAVE HAD TO GO OVER THE HEAD OF A (BLACK) SUPERVISOR …. RETAINING A GOOD ATTORNEY IS AN ABSOLUTE MUST! THESE ANIMALS NEED TO GET THE MESSAGE THAT THEY ARE NOT ENTITLED TO RACIALLY AND SEXUALLY HARRASS PERSONS WHO ARE NOT INTERESTED IN THEM!RACIAL
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Name : genna21634, City : petti, State : NA, Country : United States,Racist would like to believe that black men are cowards and are abusive toward women. Racist want people to believe that black men want to dominate white women. This is something they’ve singled out for the black man. It’s not true. Black men in general are secure in who they are. Most of us view people as people. And are not afraid to date any kind of woman. As long as she expresses a genuine interest in us as a person. Imagine being a black man. The media constantly portraying you as a villian but you havn’t robbed, sold drugs or shot anyone. But people around the world are soaking up this evil black man idea thrown out there by the media. Even black women begin to think you are a tired lazy blankety blank. Any woman that approaches you and expresses interest, you will admire for personal strength. Because this is a woman that has weeded through all the crap and has discovered you the person. Concerning submissive women. Please! Who is submissive in the western world. People who are considered white are from many different backgrounds. Some of these backgrounds are very harsh, even compared to a background such as slavery in the americas. Eastern Europeans have a background of slavery as well. Germanic women fought with swords alongside their husbands. And we all know latin women don’t play, they’ll cut ya (just a little humor from the black community). not all latin women will cut ya. The woman in todays world will not take much off of a man, any man. Even if he has got the mythological 12 incher.
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Name : Charles, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 38, City : Portland, State : OR, Country : United States, Occupation : Network Admin, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Yes, I have heard that many times from Black men. I have even heard some white girls bragging about the fact that black men want them b/c they don’t give as much ‘lip’ and are more willing to give them freedoms. This, in my opinion, is the same thing you are saying. What they do not realize is the very reasons black men are dating them is b/c they can talk to them any way and they accept it, or they can easily cheat on them b/c they allow them to be TOO free. I do not know if any of this is true, having never dated a white girl, but all my friends and family who have say that is one of the reasons. In my opinion, it is a sorry man that can’t handle a strong woman.
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Name : AmberW, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 23, City : Greenville, State : NC, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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