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What kind of white spots? What do they look like and can you squeze anything out of them. Sick i know but this will help telling you what this is.
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Name : Bosh, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Milwaukee, State : WI, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,What kind of spots, like pimples, is this the hair folical? Let us know and we can help him clean himself up.
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Name : Bosh, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Milwaukee, State : WI, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,First, how do you know that they are not contagious? Second, with HIV infections growing exponentialey, you should not even think about having any kind of sex, (and yes fellatio is considered sex), without protection. Before you have sex with him, you should both be seen by a physician and tested for STDs prior to the act.
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Name : Shanda, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 32, City : Fort Wayne, State : IN, Country : United States, Occupation : Secretary, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Unless your boyfriend has an std that relate’s to this condition i wouldn’t worry. the spot’s could be or probably are just the pigmentaion of the skin on his shaft. if you have not asked him about it suggest you do. i am sure he can tell you what they are.
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Name : Joseph, City : Budd lake, State : NJ, Country : United States,Could it be Forsyth’s Condition? I’m not a doctor, but it sounds likely. It is a VERY common and harmless thing. It’s not communicable and many people have it. I have even read that all men have this to some degree. 🙂 Defined: ‘Sebaceous Hyperplasia and Fordyce’s Condition Sebaceous hyperplasia is a skin condition in which a person develops small, yellowish growths, usually on the face. A variant of this condition, known as Fordyce’s condition causes tiny yellow dots in groups and sometimes in sheets on the lips, inside the mouth, and sometimes on the genital skin. In both conditions, the small, yellow spots represent an overgrowth of sebaceous glands. Neither sebaceous hyperplasia or Fordyce’s condition is dangerous.’ See: http://www.medhelp.org/perl6/dermatology/messages/30319a.html
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Name : Some Guy, Gender : M, Age : 25, City : Asheville, State : NC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,i too have had spots on my penis. when i was about 19 i noticed that i had very small white spots circling the head of my penis-i had only had one sexual partner at the time so knew it wasnt warts but i worried my partner would be put off and so didnt let her give me oral sex. after seeing a doctor i found out the spots were nothing to be worried about, pearly papule was the term the doctor gave them as i remember. i had the choice of having them removed via laser or freezing but was advised that they usually dissapear within a year and preffered to wait then have a laser down there! sure enough they dissapeared within 12 months. i have spoken to my expartner about this and she told me that they bothered her at first but as they were so small she didnt notice them when perfoming oral sex or having sex in general.i think it was just a case of getting confortable with them. i never got used to the fact i had spots on my penis though and they were the bane of my life!
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Name : mat21986, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : leeds, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,These sound to me like ‘pearly penile papules’ – here’s a link at emedicine.com: http://www.emedicine.com/derm/topic313.htm. If you do a google search on that phrase, you should be able to come up with a lot of reassuring information. The web pages all seem to make a point about them being a ‘normal anatomical variation’…in other words, pretty dang normal. Here’s another site that addresses it, too: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/dermatology/messages/31559a.html I have no suggestions on how to feel less uncomfortable – if you want to – except to remember that while you may not care for the appearance, he has to *live* with it. If you can imagine how you would feel if he refused to perform oral sex on you because your labia were unappealing (or whatever), at least you might understand how your discomfort may appear to him.
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Name : Angela B., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 37, City : Bothell, State : WA, Country : United States, Occupation : homemaker, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Are you certain that your boy does not have a sexually transmited disease? Double-check this first. If it is simply coloration, then oral sex is an option, but don’t feel forced. When you perform sexual acts out of obligation rather than love and passion, it can hurt your relationship. Talk to your partner about why you feel uncomfortable. And even if he says it isn’t a sexual disease, get yourselves both tested to be sure.
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Name : Chris, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : student/teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It’s most likely Vitiligo. Does he have white patches on other parts of his body like elbow, knees, hands? These are common areas for the patches to show up. On the penis also.
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Name : Jeff31166, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 45, City : Victoria, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Graphic Designer - Art director, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,How do u know they are not contagious???
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Name : Joe30627, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 54, City : Cincinnati, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Weird sort of a reverse-freckles thing, maybe? But, has he had a STD test, just to be absoultely sure?
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Name : Ashley, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Deaf, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : St. Augustine, State : FL, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class,Visit the National Vitiligo Foundation at http://www.nvfi.org/ You’re right; it’s not contagious.
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Name : Chris, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 51, City : Windsor, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : Construction Estimator, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Your boyfriend needs to get this checked out, incase it is something like genital warts. How do you know they aren’t contagious? Some STDs don’t show up in a woman like they do a man, but can affect future fertility so it’s best to be safe. Otherwise, just give other excuses for not giving him blow jobs anymore, i.e. you like regular sex better.
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Name : Carol, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 24, City : Berkshire, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Social class : Middle class,I am not sure the kind of spots your boyfriend has on his penis but I too have what you might call spots on mine. The skin in the middle of the shaft has what look like fine goose pimples, visible only with an erection. I’ve had them for years and they’ve not spread at all. My family doctor (with whom I have much faith and trust) told me they’re nothing to worry about. He said they’re not caused by an infection nor something that could be passed to another person. You said yourself his are not contagious, so give him a go.
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Name : O Narat, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Asian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 40, City : Bankstown, State : NA, Country : Australia, Occupation : Government employee, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,assuming you give him vaginal sex, i.e. if you are prepared to take his penis inside your body, then i’d say turn the lights out and give him what he wants. If he knows how you feel he will be doubly grateful. demand plenty of oral sex in return. ps: these are definite spots and not just hair follicles arent they?
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Name : steve22206, City : manchester, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom,
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