[Charles32280]

To women: How would you show a male that you wouldn’t mind talking to him if he decided to approach you?

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[Sarah-C28156]

Easy: start talking as well.

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[Sunny27763]

I guess the only way one could convey an interest in conversation is by starting one; talking to him.

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[C.S.]

When I’m interested in a man I haven’t met or hardly know, I’m very subtle about it because I don’t want to freak him out or risk being rejected. I think if you’re interested in a woman and make eye contact with her and she doesn’t turn away and try to avoid you (but rather, turns away quickly because she’s shy and then you catch her looking at you again a few minutes later), that indicates she’s interested. She might even come over and start talking to you if you smile politely instead of stare. But I think to play it safe in any situation like this, as long as she’s not clearly trying to avoid you, find a way to casually start talking to her. Don’t try to use a cheesy line, but rather find something really harmless to say. Work your way slowly over to her and then ask her something like ‘What college do you go to?’ Or ‘Aren’t you in my biology class?’

The key is to be subtle so that if she isn’t interested the conversation ends easily and harmlessly and you don’t need to worry about her friends giggling about you afterward. And if she is interested, she’ll find a way to carry on a conversation about something mundane like classes you might have together.

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[C.]

By making eye contact and smiling? Or am I being too obvious?

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[Al28993]

The answer to your question: by FLIRTING. Remember, flirting is mostly nonverbal…so pay attention to the signals she’s sending out (as Christine said, it’s subtle). Are her legs crossed toward you? Is she tilting her head so she’s exposing her neck to you (or in your general direction)? Does she keep looking at you? Is she primping? Licking her lips? There’s a ton of info on nonverbal behavior out there. It’ll tell you everything you need to know…Happy reading and happy flirting.

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