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For myself, and if beer commercials can be believed for many men, as I get older I don’t find young women less attractive. I might not want to spend the evening chatting with an 18-year-old, but I certainly don’t find them any less attractive than I did when I was 18. What has changed is that women my age, who would not have been attractive when I was 18, now are. In other words, my range has expanded (theoretically). Is it the same for women? Do they still find youngsters sexually attractive as they mature?
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Name : JerryS, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : New Britain, State : CT, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I can only speak for myself despite the fact that I have several female friends who remain attracted to ‘young’ men despite their own maturity. I personally have found that although I still harbor some sexual fantasy regarding younger men – (Especially when I happen upon a young man in his late teens or early twenties… who is handsome with a nice, muscular body) – I find myself more attracted to men my own age or older. Of course, no matter what age a man is – it is more a ‘type’ that stimulates me visually and sexually. If I am in such a mood to be thinking purely of sex (ie: fornication with no emotional attachment whatsoever), I can easily find myself stimulated by the young, buff, slightly longer-haired, man of his early twenties. But if I am such a mood to crave intimacy, compatibility, and a slower, somewhat more ‘romantic’ encounter – I find myself more attracted to men my own age or older. I speak from my own experiences: I was married at 18 to my high school sweetheart. After our divorce at age 23 (we should have seen THAT coming!), I became involved with a man who was 13 years my senior. He was my confidant, my mentor, my emotional partner…. and the man who truly showed me what lovemaking should really be about. Perhaps it is my experience with him which keeps me attracted to older men vs. younger men. Sure, everybody likes some good ‘eye-candy’ – but with me (as with most women), it’s the rest of the package which really counts in the long run!
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Name : Susan, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 41, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : Real Estate, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Well, sort of. I think the teen-twenties age group has always been considered the most attractive because we’re wired from back in the caveman days to go after those in their peak of fertility. I can’t speak for all women, but I don’t find teen-age boys attractive because I automatically associate them with immaturity and recklessness, which is a huge turnoff. (And I know, that doesn’t apply to all the younger crowd, but that’s a different question.) What can be troubling is older men who want ONLY younger women, for their own egos or lack of maturity or whatever reason.
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Name : Diana, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 33, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,definitely yes, in sexual terms i can still find a 20-year-old very attractive. however, i also find them sometimes shockingly, dully immature – which tends to cool down the initial ardour somewhat… in general i would prefer a relationship to a man 3-7 yrs. older than me, because i could not overlook feeling intellectually superior or more mature to my partner for too long. maybe it’s because of these awkward moments when you suddenly think you must be sounding or feeling like his mother… *g*
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Name : c.t., Sexual Orientation : Straight, Religion : Atheist, Age : 32, City : Munich, State : NA, Country : Germany, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,I’m a 34yo female. My b/f of 8 years is 40. I am physically attracted to young teenage boys on occasion. It’s the bravado and blissful naivete as much as the physical, though. I’ve also noticed I’m more attracted to much older men in the last two or three years, and a well-maintained 80 year old man can catch my eye as easily as a man from my own age group. An interesting face and penis with a can-do attitude makes up for paunches and wrinkles and age spots. Also, I expect he would know all sorts of things…
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Name : j21147, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 34, City : chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Healthcare, Social class : Middle class,
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