Once in a Blue Moon

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    Nikki20062
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    My 32-year-old fiance would be satisfied to make love once every two months. After seven years together, I don’t expect it to be as frequent as at first, but is this average for a man of his age?
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    Name : Nikki20062, Gender : F, Age : 29, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, 
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    KR26939
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    No, this is not a typical routine. Everyone is different, but on average I think it’s more like once or twice a week. Via a poker game, our roundtable discussion revealed numbers varying from 1-2 times a week to 4.3 (no kidding – she had averaged it out over their four-year courtship and three years of marriage). It may be time for some introspection – are you as sensual and amorous as you were pre-wedding? Is he less sexual than he used to be? Give it some thought, then have a daylight, no-liquor conversation about it. Hang in there.

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    Name : KR26939, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 28, City : Birmingham, State : AL, Country : United States, Occupation : Single, 
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    Annette
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    My experience with men says this is not the norm. I have been thin and svelte and fat and pregnant and my male partners seemed uneffected. Their desire for sex was AT LEAST weekly. When I first read your question I thought maybe he was ‘getting it’ somewhere else or maybe gay and couldn’t tell you. But I also think about men (and women) of history who found sexual involvement a distraction from their careers. So I guess the bottom line is: If I love this man, can I live with physical intimacy every two months? (and accomodate myself in-between times?) Is the rest of the relationship fulfilling?

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    Name : Annette, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Puerto Rican, Religion : Christian, Age : 41, City : Virginia Beach, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Social Worker, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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