[Richard]

Many men are not like the description you give. Those who are live under the old male rules and societal beliefs. While it is true that all men think about these subjects at some point in life, if they have good moral values they will not even fantasize about this. It is unfortunate that we still have many sections of society condoning and nurturing this type of thinking.

The matter of rape goes much deeper into an area that is out of my league, unfortunately. This happens to both men and women, by the way, but men are taught they are strong and should not allow this to affect their lives. Many men have a difficult time with relationships because of the complex differences in the lives of men and women. Rape is a way for some men to gain the illusion of control in their lives. I stress the word illusion because that is all it is.

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Name : Richard, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 42, City : Ypsilanti, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower class, 

[Sarah28134]

Why is it that when a man rapes a woman, people say, ‘He wasn’t a real man.’ Does that mean other men have the urge to rape but have more self-control? And why is it acceptable for a man to cheat on a woman because the opportunity came up? What goes through men’s minds?

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Name : Sarah28134, Gender : F, City : New London, State : CT, Country : United States, 

[Joel Sammallahti]

Men say that a rapist isn’t a real man because a real man is one who would never have to rape to control women. Real men just walk up to women, tell them, ‘You sweet thing, come ‘ere and let me love you’ and the women agree. A real man can exert control over a woman because the woman wants to be controlled by him – even needs to be controlled by him, because, alas, he’s a real man and she’s a real woman. Needless to say, if real men exist, I’ve never known one.

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Name : Joel Sammallahti, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 18, City : Helsinki, State : NA, Country : Norway, Social class : Middle class, 

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