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I think that it is definitely not a good idea for a student to sleep with a teacher – it’s a conflict of interests from both sides. The teacher/student relationship is basically a professional one, similar to the employer/employee relationship. The teacher’s objectivity will be compromised by getting romantically – or just sexually – involved with a student. This can cost a teacher his or her job and maybe even career, as it is probably against school policy. Furthermore, as a student, you don’t want a teacher who is not objective in grading your work. Your education is entirely your own, and you shouldn’t do anything to short-change the value of that education.
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Name : Lucy22416, Gender : F, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 26, City : San Jose, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I find myself attracted to a female teacher. I’m 18, and she’s relatively young (30-ish). I doubt I’d make a move on her, but hypothetically, is it wrong for a student to sleep with his teacher? I’ve had older women showing interest in me ever since I turned 13 or so, so I definitely don’t buy into how it’s uncommon for older women to like younger guys.
On a slightly related topic, I’m just curious about what attracts older women to me. I hate to sound like I’m bragging, but I’m good-looking. I figure that some older women want a shot at me before I get older and lose my innocence or whatever.
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Name : Me, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 18, City : Vancouver, British Columbia, State : NA, Country : Canada, Education level : Less than High School Diploma,From looking at your information, I’m assuming you’re still in high school. It is definitely not good for high school teachers to get invloved with students, because the school is your legal guardian during the day until you are 18 (which you are). Even in college it’s iffy because of the power dynamic involved. There is a certain power differential between the teacher and student, and when romance enters the equation there is no way to avoid it. You shack up with the teacher on Tuesday night and then flunk a test in her class on Wednesday, and you’re pissed that she didn’t help you out. Another example, you and your friends act up in her class. She doesn’t want to say anything because she’s involved with you, and if she does scold you, you’re pissed at her again. See what I mean? What if she said ‘sleep with me for a grade’ or ‘If you don’t come over I’ll fail you?’ Getting together with your teacher, especially in high school, is asking for big trouble.
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Name : Marc22357, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 25, City : Morgantown, State : WV, Country : United States, Occupation : Grad Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Whoever responded before me made a good point about power. Don’t give up the power. My high school history teacher failed me because I wouldn’t fuck her (fat bitch!). While I could have done all my homework, if I would’ve ‘did it’, I would’ve graduated with my class. As far as the older women/younger man thing, there are a lot of factors. One may be your maturity, its considered very attractive to be mature. Also, many women get self consious around that time and it seems that the attention does wonders for their self-esteem. My advice, if you are attracted to her, go for it. But remember, if its a teacher be careful, you don’t want to lose that ‘power’. By holding out, YOU have control, you feel me. Many women do that to us, they use sex as a trump card of sorts. Peace LSD p.s. Don’t be afraid to ask for some money for services, haha. But seriously, school is expensive.
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Name : LSD, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 20, City : Oakland, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Flag Burner, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower class,
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