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Girls can most certainly fake orgasms, and the only way to tell for sure is for her to tell you. I guess the best way to be sure initially is to trust the girl you’re with and hope she’s honest with you and wouldn’t do that. The reason women fake is because they don’t want their partner to feel inferior or that he can’t satisfy her needs. And it’s ok if she doesn’t orgasm every time, because it’s a lot more difficult for a woman to achieve orgasm than it is for a man. The orgasm shouldn’t be the goal. Just enjoy the act. Once you get to know your partner (assuming you intend to have a long-term relationship with one partner) there may be indicators to you that she’s either orgasming or faking it.
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Name : Leah26114, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 22, City : Salt Lake City, State : UT, Country : United States, Occupation : unemployed, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Can a girl fake an orgasm? If so, what are some ways you could detect that?
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Name : Joey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Middletown, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : Champions, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,i honestly can tell you that i have faked an orgasm, but i ve also experienced them as well, and the muscles inside the vagina contract and constrict,sort of the feeling of squeezing very quickly and lightly, almost a shivering, or spasming;also there is a little fluid from female ejaculation, but not all women experience this-it varies for each woman.hope this helps you out!
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Name : dannielle, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : bicurious/straight, Race : dutch/spanish/caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 28, City : kitchener, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : photo lab technician, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Yes, a girl can easily fake an orgasm because there is not necessarily anything obvious, to you that is, that happens. I’d say the best way to be able to tell is get to know the girl and her behavior. When you know her habits well enough you should be able to tell what’s real and what’s not (but hopefully you wouldn’t need to).
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Name : Chelsie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 18, City : St. Louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Girls do it all the time. And if she’s good enough at it…you’ll never know. There really aren’t that many ways to detect it, because it’s just imitating a real one (which isn’t that hard, they just don’t have an actual orgasm, but they can make the noises and motions) We only do it b/c sometimes it takes longer for us to climax than guys and it’s just easier to do this than try to explain to a guy what he needs to do.
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Name : Anna23830, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 19, City : Atlanta, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m sorry to tell you this, but yes, women and girls can fake an orgasm, and you can’t tell if it is fake unless they are being completely transparent. Women can do this because there is no ‘evidence.’ There is such a think as female ejaculation, but that is another subject and does not apply to all women. If you are also asking why a woman would do it, you would have to ask the woman. The next time the movie When Harry met Sally comes on TV, watch it. There is a scene that addresses your question. Better yet, rent it.
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Name : E Henderson, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : African Methodist Episcopalian, Age : 37, City : Oakland, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’ve been told that a test as to whether a woman is faking an orgasm is to check her nipples – if they’re erect, it’s real – if they’re not, she’s faking – anybody else ever here this? Besides, why do you care? If she’s faking, she at least cares enough about your feelings to put on a show. Plus, she may just want to quit and snuggle or something and not let your ego get in the way.
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Name : Jim-F, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 56, City : Menasha, State : WI, Country : United States, Occupation : retired, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Start by exploring your partner–bring her to orgasm orally, or digitally and compare it to when you have intercourse. Her interior muscles will contract, her body will move, she’ll breathe differently. But the best way to know for sure is to ask your partner, and talk about sex–likes, dislikes, fantasies. Remember that women talk about EVERYTHING, and if she is getting naked with you, hopefully you both should be brave enough to ask for what you like. If a woman is faking it, it is probably because she’s bored, tired, or is taking so long to climax that she is trying to spare YOUR feelings by signaling the end. You’ll BOTH be better off by talking about it.
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Name : Anahita, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 27, City : Burbank, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : consultant, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,Plenty of women can fake an orgasm. I know I have many a time. One way that you can tell she’s being true is when the woman does say that she is coming, or having an orgasm, her entire body will tighten up, almost as if she can’t breath, and you will be able to feel the difference.
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Name : Hottotie, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/Native American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 22, City : Warren, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Yes, we can fake an orgasm- but it some women you can tell when. The vagina produces a fluid at orgasm. The biological purpose of this fluid is to allow the male’s sperm a better chance of reaching and fertilizing the egg (think of it as a ‘river’ to swim in). Some women produce rather large amounts of this fluid, others produce barely a trickle.
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Name : Juanita-Jones, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Catholic, Age : 45, City : Monterey, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Physician, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,The only way to tell if a woman has faked an orgasm is to look afterward to see if there are any spasms of the labia. For a short time after orgasm, the labia is very sensitive, and there will be contractions or spasms that are very quick and involuntary that cannot be faked.
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Name : Dee, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 34, City : Prentiss, State : KY, Country : United States, Occupation : Graphic Arts Student, Education level : 2 Years of College,Sure an orgasm can be faked. I’ve only done it once because I knew I wasn’t going to and I really felt sorry for the guy. But if a woman fakes it the man is never going to learn how to make the woman orgaasm for real. So I think women who fake it are truely robbing themselves.
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Name : stephanie27791, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 21, City : phoenix, State : AZ, Country : United States, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,Although the contractions are in the vagina not the labia. If you feel her tighten down on your penis-finger-tongue, then chances are it was real. If youre with the same woman alot, you might be able to sense the difference. I 90% sure my wife has faked. Not because I dont know what Im doing. I think its that she puts out on occassion just for me, not when shes really in the mood. Or maybe she is gettin tired and wants to stop but not offend me.
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Name : Mark, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 34, City : Mt Clemens, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Paramedic, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,Sometimes the spasms can be faked, but not effectively. There are a series of muscles that contract consecutively, starting from the outside and working in. They tighten from different directions. The first gives pressure from the sides, the next from the top and bottom. You’d have to still be inside and not moving to feel this happening. Some women get a bit of a rash on their body afterward. Sometimes it’s on the inner thigh, sometimes the chest, sometimes even the feet. The skin will appear rosey, as if it’s been slapped, but that could be hard to tell, as not everyone is as pale as myself. Let’s just say that for white girls, it’s a little easier to tell.
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Name : StarrWolf27941, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 20, City : Stephenville, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : delivery driver, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,If her nipples are not erect, she faked it.
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Name : Keith, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Augusta, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : Tech, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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