[Sepaman44]

How did you know you were gay? And when? Was it just curiosity at first, or did you really know it?

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Name : Sepaman44, Gender : M, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, 

[Vladimir]

Hi I am a 29 year old gay individual, How did i find out I was gay?? First I must have been 6 or 7years old, Maybe younger i really dont really remember how old! When i realized that i was not attracted to little girls instead i found myself more interested in other boys not in sexual way but just attracted to them… as i grew up I found myself not having any interest in girls instead i found myself been attracted to boys my age.. I even remember being ilusioned by other boys my age as i grew up i found that i ha no attraction for girls at all and i felt comfortable liking other men like me but i must admit i felt closer & more comfortable with other gay men such as myself in the emotional & physical aspect.. I think most people think gays are attracted to just men but in reality most gays are attracted to other gay men who they feel comfortable with in every way… I would not say it was curiosity but attraction even though i have found other gay men to have realized that they were gay after being curious and experienced emotionally and physically with other gay men….

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Name : Vladimir, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Catholic, Age : 29, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, 

[Rob29697]

I first consciously realized that I was gay when I was 12. But I had the feelings long before that. When I was about 4 or 5, my dad used to take me swimming at a local community pool. I would always get a kind of fluttery feeling in the pit of my stomach when we went into the locker room to change. I was entranced by the sight of so many naked men and boys. I had no idea why. I’d make up excuses, like having to go to the bathroom, to go back in the locker room just to sneak another look. Later on, I was on a swim team and was always looking at the other boys, particularly the older, more developed ones. I scoured my parents’ copies of National Geographic for articles on primitive tribes, because sometimes they would have pictures of naked or semi-naked men. They had a couple of coffee-table books on the art of the Greeks and Romans which were also great sources for pictures of nude male statues. I’m sure my parents thought I was either a budding anthropologist or art historian. 🙂 Pictures of naked women always left me indifferent. I also had a number of crushes which were always on either other boys in my classes or older males such as coaches, teachers, etc. I had heard words like ‘gay’ and ‘fag’ but only had a really vague idea of what they meant. When I was 12 I went to camp and one of the other naive kids asked a counselor what ‘gay’ meant. He said that it meant a boy who liked other boys in the same way that most boys like girls. That’s when it hit me point-blank. ‘Wow’, I thought, ‘that’s what I am’. In sex-ed classes in junior we were told that some of us might not have feelings of attraction for the opposite sex right then, but that we would develop them eventually. Well, I waited for this to happen. It never did. But my feelings for other males just got stronger, and their precise nature more obvious.

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Name : Rob29697, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 32, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Filmmaker, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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