Going solo not fun for me

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    NW
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    Am I unusual as a woman because I don’t particularly enjoy masturbation? I was celibate for a long time (not my choice) and did it then out of necessity. That was OK. But now I’m married and have no urge to masturbate.
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    Name : NW, Gender : F, City : New York City metro area, State : NY, Country : United States, 
    #18182

    Kamala
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    I tend to think that women in general have a hard time enjoying masturbation because it has been ingrained in our heads that this is a particularly dirty and shameful habit to partake in. Women throughout history have been taught that their bodies are the source of carnal sin and that they shouldn’t be using them for anything other than procreation, let alone pleasure for themselves.

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    Name : Kamala, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Various Eastern Religions, Age : 21, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, 
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    TL24634
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    I agree with the women who say they feel no desire to masturbate, although I wonder if I were a woman whether I might be more inclined to (less messy, more graceful/erotically viewed and theoretically holding more promise). I remember having a hard time believing my ex-wife when she told me she had never masturbated and didn’t see the purpose.

    Personally, I get no erotic or spiritual uplift from it, which is the real beauty of it, the “dance,” if you will. Maybe it’s a state of mind we all evolve toward.

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    Name : TL24634, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 45, City : Miami, State : FL, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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    susan25816
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    you probably have had a bad past sexual experience, and whenever sex is brought up you associate the two

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