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Why do many men wish to ejaculate in a woman’s mouth? What is the turn-on?
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Name : Sarah28117, Gender : F, City : Flint, State : MI, Country : United States,I am one of the few women I know who loves to perform oral sex and swallow. Unfortunately, my husband is one of the few men who doesn’t really like it. He says he feels strange just ‘taking,’ and that it is hard for him to climax that way. He is very unusual, though. For me, I love the feeling of power I get and the ability to give my man such incredible pleasure. It’s a wondserful skill to have.
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Name : Female, Gender : F, Age : 32, City : Culver City, State : CA, Country : United States,I agree with you. The ability to perform oral sex on a man is a great skill. And it’s great fun. I also don’t have anything against swallowing. It’s erotic, and my man says it makes him feel more accepted by me if I do it. But if your hubby doesn’t like it, you can either try different methods on him, to see what he likes, or you could try giving him some while he pleasures you with his hand or mouth. That way he won’t feel so greedy. If he doesn’t like it still, then I suggest you respect his preference.
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Name : Marta, Gender : F, City : New Hammond, State : CT, Country : United States,Aside from any sociological explanations, there are physical reasons why this is desirable. It’s all about follow-through, ladies. Imagine if, at the precise moment you came to climax, your beau were to pull away from you. You might still have the orgasm, but your enjoyment of it would be notably decreased. The warmth of your partner’s mouth and tongue during orgasm is part of what makes it so wonderful. But, like every other guy who has responded to this question, I’m ignoring the dicier aspect of the question. I will admit it freely: I also love coming onto a woman’s lips and/or tongue even when I’m only partially inside her, or not inside her mouth at all. I think this is the aspect of felatio that really baffles/angers some women. (Although, as much as it may horrify them to know this, many women love it, too!)
While psychological factors might be at play here, the fact is that sex is dirty – at least, if you’re doing it right. While ‘making love’ (with the angelic choir in the background)has its place, the encounters you tend to remember are the ones that got so intense that neither of you felt the need to be dainty. The turn-on here (for me, at least) is not just that I’m coming into her mouth, but that she wants me to.
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Name : Chris, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States,We all know it is the power-ego thing for a man to ejaculate into our little mouths. If you are going to suck him then do a good, complete job. There’s nothing wrong with submitting to your man.
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Name : Claudia31968, Gender : F, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 28, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States,I get a completely different experience than several of the responders when performing fellatio for a lover. When I am with someone I care about, I don’t feel they are more powerful than me during fellatio. Instead, I feel like I am in total control of the situation. I really get a charge out of giving my lover pleasure and being in charge of his body and his responses. And there are other options to the oft-mentioned ‘spitting out’ of the semen. One is to keep the penis in your mouth, swallow as much as you feel comfortable, and allow the rest to run back out of your mouth over the penis. It’s messy, but the best things in life are, and I’ve been told it’s a warm, pleasant feeling.
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Name : Terry24717, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Richmond, State : VA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,It is absolutely about power. I don’t see how anyone can be ignorant of the power play going on. I consider oral sex far more intimate than vaginal intercourse. It absolutely makes me feel powerful when a woman is willing to do this to me, far more than with vaginal intercourse. Perhaps this is because it represents pure sex, but mostly because it’s ‘nasty’. The concept of engaging in oral sex rather than intercourse so that one can save themselves for marriage has always baffled me. Some responses question how it can be loving to do something your partner wouldn’t do if left to their own devices. It’s not all about love. Other emotions go into making a relationship as well, as some other responsdants recognized when women said that they did it because, or at least knowing, that it made him feel powerful. Some recognised that there was an aspect of power for them as well. Every time I see some girl clinging to a guy’s back on a motorcycle while he dodges traffic at 70 mph I am reminded that there are certain non-politically correct aspects to sex.
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Name : Mark, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 42, City : Honolulu, State : HI, Country : United States, Occupation : engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’ve never a had a woman who swallowed my ejaculate. It’s too bad because I’ve gone above and beyond in pleasing a woman orally. I think most women whom I’ve known are sexually lazy this way.Too me love is making sacrifices/concessions in bed for your partner. It might be painful or uncomfortable but believe me that’s what a relationship entails. I appreciate the response from the woman who listened to her man tell her that it was an absolute turn on to have her be that submissive. She’s a smart woman to do it. It’s not like it was life threatening and believe me don’t think for one moment that she’s reaping the rewards for such submission !!! He probably worships her out of bed and inside it also.
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Name : Andrew, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 47, City : Parker, State : CO, Country : United States, Occupation : Information Technology, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I don’t want to sound weird but it isn’t a control thing. A man really has no control when this is being performed. I think a lot of me are visually stimulated. Hell we look at pornographic magazines from a young age and some of us have even seen pornographic movies, not really marketed at women. The most mind blowing experience I have ever had that I will go to my grave remembering was an ex-girlfriend removing me before climax and asking me to shoot it all over her face. I am not sure if it was the plain filth of it all or the fact that I have never been with a woman that gave me that before but it definitely made a strong life-long lasting impression on me. Turned on and quite honestly the best orgasm I have had by far. Maybe it is just me but we are visual creatures.
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Name : Steve, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Age : 29, City : Omaha, State : NE, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I’m a girl that ejaculates and has swallowed a guy’s semen in the past (not because he asked, just curious!)… so the guys in these posts keep saying that coming in the girl’s mouth is about ‘acceptance,’ but I pretty much feel accepted by my boyfriend without ejaculating in his mouth, and if I can feel secure in a relationship without asking my man to perform degrading sexual acts then surely men can manage this feat as well. Cumming in somebody’s mouth just disgusting. I’m blaming the porn industry
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Name : Elizabeth, City : Williamsburg, State : VA, Country : United States,when she swallows her male’s semen with him present he is actually becomes part of her… she’s digesting him. He is now in the deepest regions of her body. She will take the nutrients from the sperm she encouraged him to make by stimulating his glans with her mouth and integrate it into her body, into to her blood, her tissues, her organs.
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Name : boyd, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Age : 49, City : clickville, State : FL, Country : Canada, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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