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It is because we know it is not a sexual advance.
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Name : Anne T., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Southern Baptist, Age : 34, City : St. Louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,My brother is a homosexual and I know that I have caught him touching some of his friends that our girls in sexual manners. Usually he intends it as a joke and his females friends laugh. The nature of the relationship between a gay man and a straight women is different than between a straight women and a straight man. Gay men and straight women share an intimate bond that is similair to two straight women who have a friendship. Sexual touches simply don’t feel as sexual coming from a gay man. They seem more humorous or silly. Some can be intrepreted as a warm relationship between buddies.
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Name : Amanda, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 19, City : Cedar Rapids, State : IA, Country : United States, Occupation : night stock, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,When a gay man is touching a woman, his intentions are usually not the same as when a straight man touches a woman. The woman knows that the gay man is not touching her to get into her pants seeing that he is not interested in the female gender. Also, cultures view gestures differently, for example the peace sign in the United States means peace, while in Australia it means something completely different (a bit inappropriate for this posting). The gay culture may see touching as a way of friendship, and more times than not when a straight man touches a woman he wants much more than to be friends. That is why a woman slaps a straight man when he touches her and not a gay man.
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Name : anonymous, Gender : F, Age : 19, City : boulder, State : CO, Country : United States,I work with two gay men, and lemme tell ya, I MIND! I am not a touchy-feely person, and it really irritates the crap out of me when they feel completely free to either pat me on the rump or give me unsolicited hugs or compliment my cleavage. I would be weirded out if a straight girl said or did those things, too, so it doesn’t have anything to do with the fact that they’re homosexuals. In my opinion, the only person allowed to put his hands all over my body is my significant other.
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Name : Rina28709, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, City : Palm Beach, State : FL, Country : United States,This subject I’m an expert in. I have many gay male friend who love to touch my boobs, which I don’t necessarily understand. I love getting the attention from these guys. It makes me feel good about myself without feeling slutty because I know these guys are just playing around. If I let a straight man fondle me in public, I would look like a whore and it makes me feel self-conscious and disrespected. With my gays, I know its just a joke that we can laugh about. I grab their packages all the time.
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Name : Amanda, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 20, City : Columbus, State : OH, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Gay men aren’t trying to get the woman in bed. They know the touch isn’t sexual because the gay man has no interest in the woman sexually. That said, there are women who DO mind, particulary those who are survivors of sexual abuse, rape or domestic violence. And those who simply don’t like their personal space invaded by unwelcome or unasked for touch. Love and Light
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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,
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