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I know of lots of people who set up their friends with their sibling. Also, my dad’s friend married my aunt (my dad’s sister).
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Name : Katie26705, Gender : F, Age : 27, City : Somewhere in Canada, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Public Relations, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I want to get an idea of what people think about hooking up with a best friend’s younger sister. Do you think it is wrong, or simply a relationship between two consenting adults?
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Name : Andy, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I hope it wouldn’t happen to you, but what happens if there’s a falling out? Are you willing to put friendship on the line, in the event that the relationship with your friend’s sister goes sour? I, unfortunately, have seen it happen and it resulted in two terminated relationships.
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Name : Brett19434, City : Florence, State : KY, Country : United States,It’s OK if it dosn’t bother her brother. If it does then you must think if friendship is worth loosing over his Sis
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Name : Ken, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : OLD, City : Minneapolis, State : MN, Country : United States, Occupation : Retired Firefighter, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Think about if the worst should happen between you and your friend’s sister. Do you think you could tolerate the awkwardness after the break up (or rejection), or even the risk of losing your friend? Personally I wouldn’t do it because I like to avoid all that. But if you’re asking this question, this young lady must be really special, and at your age I assume you would know who’s good for you and who’s not. And if things go very well with her, then you have the great benefit of your friend being a member of your family.
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Name : Lil, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 19, City : Macomb, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Upper middle class,If by hooking up you mean a 1 time sex romp then no. That is crossing the line. If your friend trusts you enough to expose you to his family then you need to respect that. If you want to have a relationship with her thats different. You should talk to your friend and as his permission. Tell him that you care about his sister but that your friendship comes first. If he says no then go with his wishes…. Girls come and go, but best friends are hard to come by.
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Name : Megan, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 24, City : Olathe, State : KS, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Well that depends. What doe’s your best friend think of this? How old is his younger sister? I know that if I had ever hooked up with my older brothers best friend he would not be very happy with me or with his friend. But it also depends on what kind of guy you are. Are you the kind of guy your friend would want to date his sister? If you are then there should be no problem.
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Name : Mandy22327, Gender : F, Age : 20, City : Bernardsville, State : NJ, Country : United States,Hey, I’ve had the same best friend for 16 years now. As such, I got to know his whole family pretty well. His sister (2yr younger) and I have been dating for the last 4 years and are planning on moving in together late this year. The whole thing has worked really well for me.
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Name : Tom29634, City : Anytown, State : NA, Country : Canada,Why would it be wrong? Friends’ friends and relatives are a great source of dates. If your friend has a positive opinion of you he should be pleased that you, and not some random jerk, are dating his sister. If he doesn’t, maybe you ought to look at why he thinks that – have you mistreated other girls?
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Name : Darryl, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 32, City : Brisbane, State : NA, Country : Australia, Occupation : Temp, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,in my circle of friends, its considered a bad thing to try to hook up with a friends younger sister. most of my friends are very protective of their sisters, regardless of who the guy trying to date is. we may joke with each other about wanting to get to know their sister better, but its just joking.
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Name : Mike19396, City : SanFernando, State : CA, Country : United States,It will strain and change your best friend relationship. There will be a major part of your life that for the first time you cant share with him. If the relationship with sis goes sour, then it’ll even be more difficult since bro has the natural ‘protector’ role.
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Name : Race-Bannon24979, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 38, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Occupation : Human Resources, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,…then don’t do it. he’s been your friend longer than you’ve had eyes for his sister. then, whether he’s cool with it or not, depending on how strong the feelings are, i don’t think there’s anything creepy about it at all. it’s only creepy if you cant discuss it with him.
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Name : jummy30912, City : chicago, State : IL, Country : United States,In my opinion there isn’t anything wrong with it, but I might feel differently if it were my sibling. If your friendship is more important to you than a potential relationship with his younger sister, you should hold your friend’s opinion above all others. And of course, if you break her heart, you might have to answer to her brother.
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Name : Rose24664, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 17, City : Orlando, State : FL, Country : United States, Education level : Less than High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Depends on how good the friend is…you know that!
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Name : Pauly B., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Irish, Religion : Deist, Age : 37, City : Denver, State : CO, Country : United States, Occupation : CAD Tech, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Post hight school I dated one of my better friends older sister for a few months. he claimed he did not have a problem with it, and I did ask him before proceeding. We dated and ended up sleeping together. However, the relationship did not work out and I was the one who had to break it off because she refused to. I don’t believe it adversely affected my friendship with my friend per se, however it was very uncomfortable hanging out at his house (where the bunch of us hung out on a regular basis) and she did make some of our mutual friends ‘take sides’. Be prepared for those kinds of ‘after effects’ if it does not work out.
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Name : Kevin28826, City : Bradenton, State : FL, Country : United States,
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