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Do men find women more attractive after they have breast implants?
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Name : Sue P., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 38, City : San Diego, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 4 Years of College,For me, just the opposite. Implants are fake – usually, they’re obviously fake – and what’s attractive about fake? That kind of self-mutilation turns me off in so many ways.
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Name : Andrew, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Huntington, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Reporter, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Looks are a part of the criteria we use to decide whether to try to meet someone. It happens that a woman’s breasts are something that are considered sexual, yet the shape is visible through clothing. So, advertising, magazines and all kinds of media have played up breast size over the years – because they could. Looks are also a part of who we want to marry. Each person has their own subconscious idea of the minimum acceptable looks for a mate. These two things are usually very different.
Most emotionally well-balanced people get past looks quickly. A large-breasted woman attracts a lot of attention from strangers. This does not mean she can carry on a conversation. Some insecure men would not marry a large-breasted woman because of the attention she attracts from other men. I have found that women approaching a ’10’ are usually not emotionally well-balanced. (I’ve dated large- and no-breasted women.) They have enjoyed attention from men in ways that only a small percentage of the female population is used to. This affects them. If you are mostly interested in having the most aggressive male strangers approaching you in public, then breast enlargements work. If you are more interested in meeting men who are interesting, then read books about meeting people, what to say, how to act, body language, etc. You would be amazed at how having confidence that you are interesting and valuable, along with learning the right communication methods, at the right time, can change your social life. Drastically.
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Name : Roger-V, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 42, City : Flanders, State : NJ, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,It really depends on what you start out with. Some very flat-chested women could benefit from some breast augmentation. The aim mightn’t be to look ‘outstanding,’ just normal. It might be important for them to regain their self-esteem. I have no problem with this. Then again, if you’re talking Pamela Anderson ‘warheads,’ forget it. Not so sexy.
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Name : John29324, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 36, City : London, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : I.T., Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am also perplexed by guys who are into fake breasts. There’s an attitude of ‘of course they’re fake, and I don’t care!’ To me, it’s like a guy with a bad toupee. It looks ridiculous, it’s nothing Mother Nature would ever bestow upon you, and you paid good money for it. What does that say about you as a person? And it’s true that 99 percent of the time, it’s very obvious when a woman’s breasts are fake. I’d think it would be frightening to men — here’s a woman who wants to be noticed for her breasts, and that’s the opposite of what reasonable women want.
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Name : Diane, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 32, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : musician, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Why would women want to do this? As a man, it makes me sick to think this is what women are driven to by artificial standards of beauty. I think men who really like big breasts must miss something about being a baby or have some fixation on their mothers. I prefer a girl with a little chunk in the trunk myself.
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Name : chris, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 25, City : Austin, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I do not like breast implants. I would not knowingly date nor marry a woman with implants. I must admit that visible breasts (cleavage, tight blouse or sweater) do get my initial attention. However, as Roger stated in his response, after a few minutes (or less) of conversation on many such occasions, I have decided that I was not interested in that woman. Perhaps I do not fit the male norm, but I am usually more a sucker for a woman’s eyes and, yes, personality. I once knew a young woman who had had a double-mastectomy (I met her at a ‘clothing optional resort’) and I found her to be a very attractive and sexy woman.
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Name : Lazarus, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 41, City : Atlanta, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : Sales, Education level : 4 Years of College,
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