[T.C.]

I am a gay male, and I know a lot of people at my gym. Occasionally, men whom I’ve assumed or known were straight have come up to me and asked me out for drinks. I should point out that while I’m not closeted, most people are shocked to find out that I am gay as I don’t exhibit many of what they consider to be ‘stereotypical’ gay traits. My concerns are that (truly) straight men will think I assume they are gay and that I think they are coming on to me if I tell, and that if I don’t tell and they find out later they will worry that other people might think they were gay or that I was secretly coming on to him. To gay men: Do you tell? Why and how? To straight men: Would you rather know up front? Would finding out later make you feel ‘weird’?

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Name : T.C., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 32, City : Phoenix, State : AZ, Country : United States, Occupation : Web Developer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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