[Anna R.]

I’m a heterosexual woman serving as best man at a same-sex (male) wedding. Should I throw a bachelor party, and if so, how should I go about it?

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Name : Anna R., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : bipolar disorder, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Taoist, Age : 26, City : Aberdeen, State : SD, Country : United States, Occupation : Writer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Doug25622]

Because gay commitment ceremonies are a relatively new phenomenon, there is no right answer. Talk to the couple. It may be they won’t want a bachelor party (separately or combined), or perhaps they would like one, kind of like a rehearsal dinner. Above all, respect their choices. My husband of six years and I have never had a ceremony and don’t plan to, but I know we would feel uncomfortable at your typical everybody-get-drunk-and-bring-on-the-strippers bachelor party.

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Name : Doug25622, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Phoenix, State : AZ, Country : United States, Occupation : Administration, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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