[Betty]

I’d attribute it to personal preference and probably the (unrelated) people they grew up or live around. I’ve seen even amounts of Asian women dating Asian men and Asian women dating men of other races. Personally, I tend to find Mediterranean-looking guys and Japanese guys attractive.

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[Sam]

I think one of the other factors it that you aren’t necessarily just dating a man – but also his family. And if you are of the same (or similar culture) then you are often expected to conform to a traditional role – which is often somewhat more oppressive for Asian women than men.

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[Lish24274]

are you refering to american-asian women, or native asian women? anyway, if there isn’t large asian community in your area, stands to reason that many asian females you see are interracial dating, right? yeah, there is often a mindset of caucasian men being more ‘superior’ and desirable, especially among asian women in their native country, or who have immigrated. why so? cultural programming, media influence, material reasons…all these things have a great impact on the way one chooses a partner, espcially when one has been exposed to it at a very, very young age. we pick up ideas of when makes a desirable match, based on stereotypes. of course, many young asian women now are breaking free of that find-a-white-boyfriend,-any-white-boyfriend concept. if you chance upon an asian girl with an preference for western men, it is probably because these men are more open about their feelings, more romantically inclined, and more spontaneous than traditional asian men.

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[Mr. Someone]

Sorry but I think Asian women have a prejudicial attitude towards their own kind and other people of color it seems. Many websites talk about this. Most prefer White Caucasian males for some reason. The ones I have asked said they want their kids to come out with blue or green eyes. They have a love for that.

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[LL]

You are right on all acounts, as an Asian woman I will NEVER go out with an Asian Man…the ones I have met on a non romantic level are all Pricks and don’t even let me get into the dynamics of dealing with an Asian males family.

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[cilcil]

I am a black man who has dated all races. many white guys feel powerless to stop black men from dating white women. when they here an asian guys complainning about the white man stealing his girls he feels powerful again. I beleive the media has fail to totally scare away other races from blacks. and has sucessfully stereotype the asian guy to kill intrest in him. during the hay day of martial arts being chinese or asian was seen as a mysterious asian inner strength. many white producers saw this an replace them with chuck norris, steven siegal etc. also before the 1965 most be people except for the viet nam vets weren’t expose to asian people. (unless you live in California or near a china town). So to the average american all asian were bruce lee and had good fighting skills. or a vietnese or japonese comando. when many koreans and later vietnese entered the states in large numbers people began to see that as a myth. Many people were exposed to asians through their stores. because of there short stature and what sounds like baby talk to the average american ‘assholes/bullies’ began to target them. Many asian guys don’t handle extreme public confrontation with confidence. even verbal confrontation. ‘asshole are quick to notice this’ Many women want a protector. Even if it only verbal or socially. Many asian guys don’t take the risk because of family values or poor english skills. one last thing you have to realize many americans are lazy and ignorant. they lump most asians in to being chinese and thinking chinese. they can’t see (or don,t want to see) you have burmese drug lords who are your noriegas of asia, your philipino players who fuck lots of black and spanish woman, and japonese business men who fuck more russians then white men. lets not forget all the hawiian and polynesian men who fuck tons of ameriacan white women.

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