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I’ve come to the conclusion that women who are very attractive are unapproachable because it seems very likely that they will reject advances. The man thinks ‘This woman is gorgeous, she could just take any man she wants. What kind of a chance would I have? If she wanted a man, she’d already be going out with one of all those handsome guys around.’ But just because men often have trouble approaching attractive women, they usually have no trouble accepting the approaches of those same women, since the worry about inadequacy is dispelled if the woman shows her own interest.
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Name : Joel Sammallahti, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 18, City : Helsinki, State : NA, Country : Norway, Social class : Middle class,I would be in the same situation if I would still live in my country Finland. I was just like you, now I am 18 and I live in Paris because I found a boyfriend here. I could never find a boyfriend in Finland because I wasn`t popular at school and I was shy, but here it`s totally different and I am not the same anymore. I am sure you will find many cool guys to stay with, but maybe not in your city or country. It`s not your fault, the guys can be totally different in other coutries or places. I wish you luck!
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Name : Maria, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 18, City : Paris, State : NA, Country : France, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Maybe guys think you are unobtainable. If you see a partner you might like instigate the relationship yourself..
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Name : Mark, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, City : Bartlett, State : TN, Country : United States, Occupation : Project Manager, Education level : 2 Years of College,Excuse me for sounding like Dr. Phil. You say men compliment you on your looks but that you’re not approached, which is a contradiction. If they’re taking the time to tell you you’re beautiful you ARE being approached. I’m wondering how old these guys are. Are they in your age group or older? If they’re older, age could be an issue. Maybe they’re attached or married and don’t intend to take it any further. I’m also wondering how you’re handling the men who approach you and how you handle compliments. Maybe a friend or a relative could tag along with you when you go out, watch how you interact with men, then give you feedback. Apparently, you’re at least somewhat interested in men who’ve approached you. Have you ever considered doing the approaching? Forget what you’ve heard or read. Many guys like being approached, especially by attractive women. Come on, this is the 2K’s. In a lion’s pride, it’s the lionesses, not the lion, who hunts. Be a lioness and get your game, Gir-r-rl! Oh, unlike the lioness, you’re not expected to share.
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Name : Darren, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Methodist, Age : 39, City : San Antonio, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Unemployed Mortgage Servicer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Unapproachable would mean that you are giving off a vibe that makes men think you are not interested. You might want to read some books or articles on body language to see if you are using unfriendly body language. To be approachable, you’ll want to smile a lot, laugh, make eye-contact with men you are interested in, don’t fold your arms across your chest or use other negative body language. Generally speaking, smiling at a man and making good eye-contact is usually enough to signal that you are friendly and interested. If he is interested too, he should come over and talk to you. Keep smiling while you talk to him and laugh as much as you can, but not so much that you look like an idiot. Be aware – there are many rapists out there (many more than you probably think.) You are at the perfect age where they will be staking you out. Good luck finding a man.
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Name : Heather, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 31, City : Cleveland, State : TN, Country : United States, Occupation : Self-employed - Internet, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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