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I find it amusing that you call it a problem. My wife and I have both given and received in this manner. There are two issues here, I believe. The first is the lack of consideration. Intimacy requires good communication. If your wife is not taking into account your wishes, then something is not right. If you are truly against trying this, she should respect that. Make sure you are open and honest about it. The second issue is why are you against it? I’m not trying to persuade you if you really don’t want, but from what I’ve read here on Y?Forum it seems that a lot of people are afraid that being anally penetrated makes them gay in some sort of way. Don’t get hung up on this stigma, if that’s the issue. If you are engaging in some sort of act with your wife, then no matter what it is, it is still a heterosexual experience. Two lesbians with a strap-on are not consider bisexual, so this doesn’t make you bisexual either.